🌸Orpah [2

Happy Tuesday, Yielded People !

Do you know who the lady in the blue shawl is? That’s Orpah, the woman who chose to return home. She decided to follow her own path. We often focus on Ruth, commending her for following Naomi, but here’s the truth: Orpah had no destiny in Bethlehem. She wasn’t wrong for going back. Sometimes, we feel guilty for leaving certain places or people behind, but the reality is this, some journeys are meant to end right there.

Orpah turned and went back home. I want to speak directly to those who are still in places that no longer serve them, you can go back home. If that relationship means being beaten daily, rather than staying until it costs you your life, go home. If you’re in an “Egypt” where Pharaoh enslaves you, leave.

Too often we stay because of sentiment, emotion, or misplaced loyalty. But the real question is: what’s left for you there? There was no Boaz waiting for Orpah in Bethlehem. Her journey with Naomi and Ruth ended right there and that was okay. Some relationships, some seasons, will bring you to a crossroad where your best and wisest choice will be to turn and walk away. It’s not the absence of love. It’s the call of destiny.

I remember many relationships I had to walk away from. They had served their purpose. I’ve scrolled through my phone before, blocked, deleted. Some bridges were burned because there was no need to cross them again. We may have been destined to be friends for five years, for a reason. But when that reason is fulfilled, it’s time to part ways. These are called seasonal relationships. It’s not wrong to separate from people, as long as the Lord has made it clear there’s no future with them. I saw a post yesterday that said, “Sometimes that heartbreak is God’s blessing of love to you.” Do you know how many people are still dragging along those they should have released five years ago? All in the name of, “We went to school together.”

Was it painful for them to part ways? Yes. Did she probably want to stay? Yes. She wept bitterly. She loved her mother-in-law. But love is not the reason to stay, purpose is. Destiny is. It’s painful to leave. To live separate lives. To adjust to life without them, no question about that. But we learn here that the length of a friendship doesn’t automatically make it right for you. We often talk about separating from toxic people, but what do you do when God says to separate from good people? People who did nothing wrong. Nobody abused Orpah. They loved each other, but the time was up.

“Lord, but they didn’t do anything wrong.”

And God says, “Yes… but in Bethlehem I only see Ruth and Naomi.”

“Lord but l love him/her!”

“Yes… but in the future, I don’t see you together.”

“Lord, but he’s a good man… she’s a good woman.”

And God says, Yes… but you’re not meant to be together.

That hurts because there’s no bad reason to leave. We often look for flaws to justify our separation, but sometimes there are none. And still, God says: This is where it ends. Leave that house. Leave that environment. Leave that person. You don’t argue. You don’t delay. You obey. Orpah, if you tag along, you’ll become a burden. You might even find jealousy creeping in when Boaz marries Ruth. Trust that God knows why seasons end. Forced seasons will frustrate you.

Don’t force things. Don’t force relationships. Don’t go where God hasn’t revealed for you to go. Don’t stay in places where there is no prophecy over your life. Remember, God knows why certain doors shut. Keep your hands off the handle.

The new will come. Believe God.

“The women cried together again. Then Orpah kissed Naomi good-bye, but Ruth held on to her.”

Ruth1:14 ICB

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