Happy Monday family. I hope we all had a great weekend.
My take away from the weekend is from the service yesterday. The woman of God said, āGod is still there, maybe not in the way you want Him to, but Heās still there.ā That really struck me because I sometimes expect God to show up a certain way, and when He doesnāt, I start to think Heās not with me. But the truth is, His presence is constant even when it doesnāt look or feel like what I imagined. I want us to reflect on someone in the Bible who actually detached from God: Eve.
We all know the story, but letās look a little closer and see what we may have missed.
Who is Eve? According to the book of Genesis, she was the first woman, created from the rib of the first man, Adam. Eve wasnāt born like you and I. She didnāt have a mother. She was never conceived. She didnāt spend 9 months in anyoneās womb so nobody could borrow money from her and when it was time to pay, say to her, āI carried you for 9 months!ā Nobody played that card with her. Eve came into the world fully grown. She was a woman, not a girl. That means thereās nothing we can study about her childhood or where she grew up. She was formed in Eden, and thatās where she lived with her husband.
Now, letās look at how she was formed and why. Because I hope you know this: God doesnāt just do things. He has a reason and a purpose for everything. God isnāt just productive; He produces according to purpose. Heās not just after results; His results always have a reason. This helps us understand that God makes no mistakes. He doesnāt occupy Himself with useless adventures or meaningless projects. His works are deliberate, calculated, and designed for a purposeful outcome. Eve, too, was created in purpose and for a purpose. Okay, letās go to Genesis!
āNow the Lord God said, It is not good (sufficient, satisfactory) that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper meet (suitable, adapted, complementary) for him.
āāGenesis⬠ā2ā¬:ā18⬠AMPCā¬
Adam has been created. Everything is already in place, but when God looks at Adam, He sees that although Adam has Him, something is still missing. Sometimes we lie to ourselves and think, āAh, I have God, so I donāt need people.ā But this scripture proves us wrong. God desires that we also have people to fellowship with, even when He is in our lives. Any gospel that says, āCut everyone off,ā is not right.
Adam had no people around him, and God Himself said, āIt is not right.ā Then God said, āI will make this man a helpmeet.ā Before we even study the other words used in this scripture, let us pause here Eve was created as a helpmeet. Not a prostitute. Not a one-night stand. Not a āfriends with benefitsā girl. Not a side chick. Not a āfornicate with me, I will still marry you.ā
And let me also say this: God did not create any woman to be used and raped. No!. God never created Eve for all that. I can even go further to say, child bearing is not the main reason why God created women. He did not create Eve for entertainment at strip clubs, or for exploitation by men. So when women get into those things, they have already missed purpose. A woman who doesnāt know the why of her existence will never fulfil her God-given purpose. Thereās so much to study so I will just write and stop where I can.
Now that weāve established that women were created for a purpose, I advise you to discover your purpose. Where purpose is unknown, time will always be wasted. When God was planning to create Eve, He used words like suitable, complementary, helpmeet, companion, just right. He was not thinking failure. He was not thinking weak. He was not thinking purposeless, ugly, or āless than.ā He was not labelling woman with the swear word or any other false identity.
I have to say this so that every identity you have adopted that is not of God may be broken right now. The truth is clear: āThe woman was made for the manā (1 Corinthians 11:9).
But understand this properly, Eve was never created to be a feminist.
She was created to help, but with a capacity that was suitable for Adam. In other words, she matched him. That means there was a specification. A type. Someone might say, āThe Bible never talks about type.ā True, maybe not the word type, but the context shows that Adam needed a certain kind of woman not just anyone. Not just any girl on social media, like some people do today.
Some men say, āI love all women black, white, coloured, Indian I just love all of them. I want all of them. I can handle them. ā Let me be honest with you: youāre a fool.
You are not normal if you want all women. Adam didnāt need all women. He needed one woman his type, his match, his God-ordained companion. Letās stop here. Eveās creation has taught us, you were created from a reason probably bigger than you know and understand. Who else can help you discover your purpose than the One who created you?
If youāve been blessed by this blog and want to support my work, fuel my brain by ābuying me a coffeeā. How much does the coffee cost? Whatever you want it to cost š Iām grateful to all the givers so far! Simply CLICK on the image below

I love you! ā¤ļø