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Chilled Thursday

“Consistency in anything is hard.”

The topic of consistency cannot be separated from discipline. Consistency is a principle of priority. It is a fundamental concept of growth. Anything you’re consistently doing builds a strong system with almost an unbreakable foundation. I learned consistency through leading the Prayer Band back in 2019-2020. I learned that in building a structure, you may get sick, you may feel tired, you may not feel as motivated as you did when you started, you may want to give up and you may even feel like you can be like everyone else , “inconsistent and unreliable” but consistency demands that you show up anyways. Consistency “demands” it is like a law. You MUST.

A sister of mine just got back to the gym. She has been showing up consistently to work out not stopping until she sees the results she wants. What does that tell us? She is committed. Likewise, consistency and commitment are sisters. You commit to be consistent. An inconsistent person is an uncommitted person. If you’re not committed to your spouse you’ll be inconsistent in showing up in the relationship. This goes for all things including our relationship with God. {Side note; I didn’t plan this blog today I’m just flowing , let’s see where that gets us lol}

When l started writing on Yielded l committed to posting Monday-Friday except when l have conference at church or I’m really unwell. Believe it or not, I’ve showed up to write even when l myself needed the encouragement. I got to understand that our commitment to our dreams benefits others too. People can drink from your well and be quenched simply because you committed to a consistent prayer life, business, to education. How consistent are you in anything at all? Are you unreliable? Can we trust you to show up at 15:00hrs to do what you promised to do or you’ll call at 15:30 saying you forgot? How do we miss opportunities? By being unprepared. We are unprepared because we never committed to training while we wait.

How committed are you to God? Since the beginning of the year till now someone has to motivate you to pray? You’re unserious. You’re not committed and it’s not entirely the devil’s fault, we are just not committed because we don’t want to. Read the line at the top. It is very difficult to be consistent but shall we dodge it to stay with what’s easy? What’s easy rarely lasts. It has no impact or lasting results. Sooner or later that building will crumble. Well sooner rather than later. How committed are you to ensuring that you’re in good health? (As for me , Lord help me on this one) To your mental advancement? Do you read? Good mind transforming materials not books that teach you 100% that all your mind can grasp is novels. How about commitment to church? Or the weather determines whether you show up or not? How consistent are we in business? (I need to be serious)

On this chilled Thursday, l need us to think. To really sit and ponder. To Selah. What am l doing inconsistently that could be great if I just committed to it? In what ways can l better myself and am l willing to pay the price to get the results l want? Do l need to be babied through life or am l ready to grow up and break ground. Remember as you chill today, that you are sometimes the weapon fashioned against yourself or the mountain threatening your destiny. Nobody is coming to save you again, you’re already saved. Stop being reluctant, hesitant and cowardly.

Find a book. Pray. Study. Enrol in free courses if need be. Commit to eating healthy food and drinking water. Commit to listening to sermons. Push your business. Anything you need to do , build consistency through commitment.

There is day and night daily yes? See consistency? Exactly. ❤️

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Worship Wednesday

Hey family! I’ve got a couple of plugs for you today for your private praise pareeeeee!!! I listen to a lot of Nigerian gospel and if I’m gonna be dancing, I’m definitely playing those. How about writing all the things God did for you this month? Small and Big! Just note them and say LORD IM GRATEFUL. Be the leper that comes back to say Thank You. 1/10 came back. This shows that not so many people come back to say thank you. Jesus asked, “Were not all ten cleansed? Where are the other nine? Has no one returned to give praise to God except this foreigner?”
‭‭Luke‬ ‭17‬:‭17‬-‭18‬ ‭NIV‬‬

I don’t know about you but worship feels like a place of rest for me. A refreshing place. A drink of cold water on a hot day. When l pour out my heart to God, how much l love and adore Him, somehow He also pours back to me. Sometimes the secret place is a place of few words but correct posture. A place where we experience deeper dimensions of God. It is a place to spend time in and by saying so, l mean take as much time as possible in worship. Don’t rush it. Don’t allow distractions. Therefore, since we are receiving a kingdom that cannot be shaken, let us be thankful, and so worship God acceptably with reverence and awe,”
‭‭Hebrews‬ ‭12‬:‭28‬ ‭NIV‬‬

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Worshipping through pain

“David noticed that his attendants were whispering among themselves, and he realized the child was dead. “Is the child dead?” he asked. “Yes,” they replied, “he is dead.” Then David got up from the ground. After he had washed, put on lotions and changed his clothes, he went into the house of the Lord and worshiped. Then he went to his own house, and at his request they served him food, and he ate.”
‭‭2 Samuel‬ ‭12‬:‭19‬-‭20‬ ‭NIV‬‬

It’s always a pleasure to worship when things are going well. When we’re happy . When you just got the new job, when you have been promoted, when the godly good man finally proposes, when the child you prayed for is in your arms, when the bills are paid off or when the doctor says ,”You are cancer free.” Those are ideal moments to worship and lift our hands and joyfully express our gratitude yes? But there are times when it feels like the world is crashing on you. When the only joygiving thing you hear is your heart beat, “Thank God I’m still alive.”

I always think of Job. The man had just heard that literally all he had was gone but he didn’t throw a tantrum, he didn’t go seeking for spiritualists or witch doctors, he didn’t even call his friends to tell them how displeased he was about God, he tore his robes and worshipped. Lately I’ve been feeling the heat of the fire and the coldness of the water. When ever it feels like my shoulders are too tired I bow before God and encourage myself in the Lord by saying His names. “Lord You are Good. Lord You are Wonderful. Lord You are Faithful.”

David just lost his son but he finds himself in a worship posture. I thought that’s the time to wail and type statuses about how unfaithful God is and why me’s. Waiting is hard. It does not only test our loyalty to God , it tests our endurance. When you keep getting bad reports does that suffocate your worship?

It’s easy to talk about worshiping in the midst of your pain . It’s easy to write blog posts, preach sermons, discuss, and sing songs about the trial and the pain. It’s even easier to advise others to do it. But what does one actually do when the situation in their lives is increasingly overwhelming.

  • When your pillows are wet from crying because you have no words to express how you feel, what does your worship look like?
  • When you lose a son or daughter, parent, spouse , what does your worship look like?
  • When you receive a terrible diagnosis and the doctor says you don’t have long to live, what does your worship look like?
  • When you suddenly lose your job, business goes down and you are between a rock and a hard place, what does your worship look like?
  • When you experience a cycle of failure and you are devoted to prayer and fasting but you’re just not arising, what does your worship look like?
  • What about being in the forefront and you are the one encouraging others to keep going, keep fighting but you aren’t getting that same encouragement and you feel weary because you have poured and poured and no one sees that you also need a refill, what does your worship look like?

By worshiping him in the midst of our suffering we force ourselves to, for a time, stop looking at ourselves and fix our eyes on the one who is faithful and steadfast – never changing in his love for us. When l lost a good job l had prayed and fasted for, I was shattered. I questioned so many things like ,”But I prayed. I testified. You know how much this was an aid in my life. Why take what feels like a gift.” I then remembered how many times l prayed “let your will be done” but did I really want His will done even if it meant losing a couple of things or going through a few trials?

I don’t know what this means for you. All l can say is, our worship to God is more than just “l feel like this and that,” it is our devotion to Him. I love it when the Bible says David encouraged himself in the Lord. How? He worshipped. Praising God through the tears is one of the most beautiful lessons I’ve learned in my faith journey. With tears in my eyes I arise and dance mightily, done it many many times. Will I worship God if everything goes wrong in my life? Would you? It’s easy to worship God when everything’s going your way. It’s easy to be a fair-weather believer. But what happens when everything goes badly in your life? Would you still trust God? That’s the ultimate test of faith. You’re going to be tested. That’s guaranteed. At some point in your life, everything is going to fall apart.

Choose to stay by His feet. Don’t you waiver. Cry if you wanna but don’t you leave. Stay right there. Give Him the glory. He has seen and He has heard.

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Reflection Friday

A letter to you …

I am not sure if I’m still good at writing love letters ( yeah I’ve written a couple of them before) I hope you are okay? Joyful? At peace? Hanging in there? Holding on? Not okay?

I am completely proud of what are you achieving little by little, I am very happy to see how you are progressing and accomplishing your goals by working day by day. I know some days are the hardest but look at you – an overcomer! How does it feel? To be more than a conqueror? Must be nice.

I am proud to see how you got up from that fall, I know it hurt, but I am proud to see how you are recovering. I know you’ve faced a couple of disappointments, maybe rejection , or maybe season of pain and shame, it wasn’t easy I’m sure. You probably cried all alone in your room not knowing which number to call, who would understand, who wouldn’t judge? Who would just offer a warm hug? I really am amazed at how you went through that. How does it feel? Being a whole Victor?

Step by step, the wound will stop hurting and then there will only be a small scar that will remind you that you are strong, and that you have already gone through this, nothing can stop you. A few hours, days, weeks, months, years from now, there you will be , testifying “The Lord has made me laugh!” I can’t wait to laugh with you.

By the way, happy new month. Don’t be anxious, do not fear, do not worry. With all that’s happened I love that you still love Jesus. You’re still your ABBA’s baby. Oh have l told you? You are beautiful. You are handsome. Wanna look at yourself in the mirror for a few mins? Or turn on your front camera. Look at your reflection, ah God did something there! Look at that smile! Your face just got 10 years younger! I hope you always remember to smile often. You’re absolutely gorgeous!

I’m so proud that even after fighting so much darkness, you keep searching for the light. Keep going. One foot after the other. Call out to Jesus should your knees get weak. Hold onto His hand, let Him carry you. It may take longer , it may happen now, keep going anyways. Keep trying anyways. Keep showing up anyways.

I just wanted to remind you that you’re a royal priesthood!

Today, tomorrow and always…

Have a great weekend!

Ohhh this is the part where we say , “Let me pen off!”

I know you remember that line!

Saranghae💗

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Worship Wednesday

Praise

“Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!”
‭‭Philippians‬ ‭4‬:‭4‬ ‭NIV‬‬

There are many people in the Bible who expressed their gratitude and thanksgiving to the Lord. My favourite of them all is David. The Bible says David danced with all his might! We live in a generation that is shy to express their joy before the Lord in a dance. People are okay with lifting hands but when it has to do with dance we are shy or we just sit down. Personally I struggle getting down especially Infront of people, I am learning even from Hallelujah Challenge that I can even do break dance for Jesus! In my personal space I really kill it! lol today let’s praise Him with a dance. This is also a good way to be free from sadness and depression. I always dance away sadness. Soooo…


WITH ALL YOUR MIGHT.

Worship

Worship the Lord with gladness; come before him with joyful songs.”
‭‭Psalms‬ ‭100‬:‭2‬ ‭NIV‬‬

Do you know? Many believers know warfare more than they know worship. We don’t know what to say in worship but we have a whole journal filled with bombs against the devil which is okay but we cannot give the enemy more attention than we give, our God. Worship is not only reserved for concerts or worship sessions at church. Worship is a lifestyle. You live it. You breathe it. You are constantly worshipping the Lord as you go about your day. Today take sometime to be intimate with your God. Don’t quickly rush out , be still, take as much time as possible.