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Controlling the mind

”“I the Lord search the heart and examine the mind, to reward each person according to their conduct, according to what their deeds deserve.”“
‭‭Jeremiah‬ ‭17‬:‭10‬ ‭NIV‬‬

Holy Hugs 🫂. Let’s get to it!!

I have been in the church literally all my life but a great part of my life I had to deal with masturbation. It is something that The Lord has since delivered me from , praise Him !! I would like to help someone with what I know so they can also experience the joys of a holy life! Living a holy and pure life is possible!! I would rise and fall, l cannot say for sure it was an addiction but it was definitely something I did at times. IT was the battle of the mind!!! The truth is, this is such a sexually driven world, 80% of the time what is before you (especially on social media) is lust. My testimony is not an uncommon one, masturbation is not something that cannot be overcome. Infact, life is more beautiful from this side – of liberty – freedom indeed. We will deal with the topic in a broader context when we study yielding the body but let’s touch on it a bit because it is an action that comes from a thought.

Where is this battle for purity being fought? Is it in the courtroom, or on the WWE ring?, Where do you think that the battle for purity is being fought? Is it fought in the boxing ring? No! It is fought in your mind! Your heart! That is where the real battle is. Where no one else can see its intensity but you! Can’t you see? That your mind is a battle field. Whatever defeats you there , defeats you physically and in all you ever do thereafter. You may feel like no other Christian has these struggles and that you will never have lasting victory over it. I want to tell you today that both assumptions are incorrect. The truth is that other Christians do struggle with the same temptations as you but not everyone falls for the devil’s tricks .

Many people who have broken free from masturbation or are still addicted to it can attest to the fact that, it all started with a thought. The thought then triggers feelings , and the feelings lead to the lustful act. This is why, thoughts are not just thoughts. Thoughts are the channel that both Holy Spirit and the Devil use to influence your life. The actions of a person reveal to us who is influencing their thoughts. Let’s be clear, masturbation is an act of instant, self-gratification. It is quite the opposite of self-control that we are constantly reminded of in the Bible. Self-control is an act of obedience to our Holy God and a fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23) an act that requires restraint, sober-mindedness, and devotion to God. A sober mind can detect the tricks of the enemy.

God says He examines the mind! Imagine this! Every time a thought pops up , God examines it. Your thoughts are not – a – secret. I will type that again, your thoughts are not a secret. We often think “this is hidden” no, it is not. God has already tested your mind! Sin thrives in secret and so the devil wants you to think that it’s between you and the walls! But God has long known it. Your thoughts are on the table -daily! Every moment.

”In fact, the mind-set focused on the flesh fights God’s plan and refuses to submit to his direction, because it cannot!“
‭‭Romans‬ ‭8‬:‭7‬ ‭TPT‬‬

What is your mind set on? What kind of thoughts dominate your mind? In order for us to yield our minds to God we need to be intentional about rebuking every flesh focused thought. Thoughts cannot be fought by thoughts! They’re fought by words. When the thoughts comes, you open your mouth and say “Devil l rebuke you!” Every battle has a strategy! The battle of the mind is fought by utterance of the word! It is fought on a different field, the field of words! That is how I won! That’s how I keep winning!

If you’re struggling with fighting thoughts, feed yourself with the Word, stay, stick , with the Word! Fast and pray!! If you slack in battle, you lose the battle. Family , we can yield. We must yield to Holy Spirit. Wake up and smell the coffee, or atleast smell the devil, he is not a sleeping enemy!

So how can we?

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Lustful thoughts(2)

”Let me emphasize this: As you yield to the dynamic life and power of the Holy Spirit, you will abandon the cravings of your self-life.“
‭‭Galatians‬ ‭5‬:‭16‬ ‭TPT‬‬

The Holy Bible

I greet you all in the Name of Our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. My apologies for the late post.Last week we looked at the topic of lust – materially, this week I want us to focus on the one that you’ve been waiting for 😂 – sexual lust.
Take a look at what I found as I was studying for this week. This is from Psychologists ;

Anti-porn women and the sex addiction industry are mistaken. Self-sexing is normal, natural, healthy, stress-relieving, and great fun. It’s the foundation of satisfying partner lovemaking. Sex therapists recommend it as part of treatment programs for premature ejaculation, arousal difficulties, trouble working up to orgasm, and recovery from childhood sexual abuse. If you have trouble enjoying sex with yourself, it’s very difficult to enjoy it with anyone else.

I bet the last line made you go “eh” if you’re a serious Christian. That whole statement is a lie from the pit of hell! I mean this is what the world is all about, gratifying SELF, feeding the flesh! If you’re expecting to live a spiritually balanced life while feeding on such information from the world, you are mistaken. All these things they’re addressing above are driven by the spirit of lust. On Friday I said, the mind feeds on information, that information can come in visual images or words. Thoughts on the other hand, wait for the mind to capture a moment. You usually think about what your mind has conceived. This simply means, to have dominion over the thoughts you must first have dominion over your mind.

Apostle Paul in his many letters addresses the subject of lust. I encourage you to further study this topic. Solomon teaches us to be careful how we think, because the quality of our thoughts will always determine the quality of our life. Whatever our minds focus on is what will play out in our lives and eventually shape who we are. Our thoughts turn into feelings that have the power to control our lives, gradually steering us and possibly our faith, in a direction we do not want to go. King Solomon knew this to be true, and counsels us to be careful about what we think and feel. He knew it’s often our thoughts, not our circumstances, which cause us to sink.

Our thoughts have power and can easily begin to run our lives, controlling our words and actions, feelings and emotions — even our peace and happiness. You masturbate first in your mind and then your body follows. The first point of lust is the thoughts and it then slows devours you, just when you think you’re breaking free, there you are , thinking about it again. There you are, falling again. Scripture says Yield! Yield to the power of the Spirit and will abandon the thoughts! The thoughts are there because you yield to pornography not the Word. You yield to silly pictures of people on Instagram .. your thoughts are your own enemy. It’s you against you!

When I intentionally changed my thoughts, my life changed as well. And so can yours.
Now that we have laid the foundation, let’s get practical tomorrow. ❤️

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Reflection Friday

””Give careful thought to the paths for your feet and be steadfast in all your ways.“
‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭4‬:‭26‬ ‭NIV‬‬

Hey family. It’s time to reflect on our week. The Word of God says give careful thought to the paths for your feet meaning we cannot be careless about anything that pertains to our lives. Be as intentional about Monday as you are about Saturday. Be serious about your Tuesday as you are about your Sunday. The truth is we cannot go back to last Wednesday we can only go back by thoughts. Let’s look at the picture above; (I love trying to interpret pictures btw!)

The old lady is seeing a reflection of herself as a little girl. The little girl looks quite simple, probably thinking fairytales , “I will be a Cinderella or A Barbie, have all the toys l want and stuff them in a pink room!” At that age in a normal household you know nothing about life really, all you know as hardship is your mom saying you can’t eat sweets after 6pm. It’s quite different in underprivileged households. By the time you’re 8, you know how to hustle for a meal, you are on the streets making a living ..

We have no idea the quality of life the lady in the picture lived but the image gives us the impression that there’s something that happened in her childhood that even as old as she is, in the mirror all she sees is the little girl in her .. the little girl has been standing there in the mirror all these years, waiting for the old lady to confront her. I’ve realised that the passing of days or years does not necessarily mean we move from certain happenings. Right now someone is still stuck on what happened on Sunday at 7am. We never truly know where we stopped living until we reflect. There’s many people stuck on things that happened ten years ago and they wonder why there’s no results in the now, it is because you have not confronted the 2014 issue. The past will always wait for confrontation. Confront it and move on.

The reason why l really want us to intentionally reflect week by week is because the once a year reflection is not enough. Life carries so many memories and they can’t be dealt with by the few days of a December retreat. Is there a little kid in the reflection of your mirror saying I’m still here , I didn’t grow up? Is there a teenager in your mirror saying please forgive me for not having the wisdom to make better choices? Is there an older you saying I know I messed up on Tuesday, those words were rude , I will do better? Who is in your mirror? Is it you? Do you even recognise yourself?

Okay… how are you? How’s your heart? Clean up the mirror, let’s face the clear facts. How do we make sure next week is better? Reflect on the wins too!! Did you celebrate the testimony? Are you improving your work ethic? What about your prayer life? What instructions did God give you? Please don’t just read and move forward without taking any measures , you don’t want to stand in the mirror one day and all you’re seeing is what could’ve been .. a man who could’ve been great. A woman who could’ve made better choices.

Don’t be afraid.. it takes bravery to confront self.
See you on Monday ❤️

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Chilled Thursday

Guyssss! I need a retreat. I don’t know if you’re also feeling tired already in 2024. I’m like no but I’m too young to be feeling this much fatigue. I can’t say I’m ineffective when I’m tired, maybe when I’m hungry but chewdren of God, I can’t redbull it anymore (I’ve tried 80% of the flavours). I used to love the original flavour until it started reminding me of some Smirnoff that I used to drink when l was still in a relationship with the world so I dropped it. So yeah, I need to lay before God and just be in my baby era.

Anyhoo, hey everyone 🤣. Today’s blog is all over the place. It’s not giving a woman of order because on Thursdays I am a chilled girl. I will wear my big girl jacket tomorrow please. I just want to recommend some books today , try by all means to get them. Reading is how we get information that many times, pushes us into new dimensions. An ignorant person will always be limited. You can’t depend on Instagram for information, they wear almost nothing there, shaking their behind and just whatever. Read books!

We are in a time where you can download books online -FOR FREE! We have no excuse honestly. Get you a book, get some nice coffee and feed your mind. The mind feeds on anything it is exposed to. Expose it to education- it will be educated. Expose it to the Word of God – it will be renewed. Expose it to science – the person becomes a scientist. You become what your brain carries. (SIDE NOTE: thinkers are attractive. I personally don’t want to marry someone whose mind retires after every 5mins. I’m giving you free advice. Brains are top tier!)” Short prayer: “Oh Lord May my husband be a man of sharp brains 🧠 abeg! May l also be a wife of wisdom! Glory! Labrosssa! AMEN!” Because I will cry eh😂😂, Here’s some books to read ; I’ve read them before and they have changed my life forever. You can dm me on Instagram @vanessa_moonkie I will help you place your order directly with the authors.

Popcorn? Yes!! Here’s a short clip to watch ! I love you

Watch now : https://youtu.be/BXWH0PNccbk?si=uLDROYM5f_VJS-4X

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It’s Worship Wednesday

My Testimony 

”At each and every sunrise we will be thanking you for your kindness and your love. As the sun sets and all through the night, we will keep proclaiming, “You are so faithful!”“
‭‭Psalms‬ ‭92‬:‭2‬ ‭TPT‬‬

Hey family. I’m sending you my love today. I truly appreciate you showing up to read these blogs every week. The statistics are really overwhelming. I would not have imagined that Yielded blogs would be read in so many countries by people l have never met yet you trust that I’m writing by the Spirit of God! That is huge! I can’t thank you enough for being an encouragement on the comments, sharing the links around, you’re so special! ❤️Thank you ! Welcome to Worship Wednesday!!

My testimony is of the encounter that I had during worship that changed my life forever. The Vanessa l am now is a product of worship. I used to lead worship in church and when l got home the Holy Spirit would call me back into the secret place, so much happened there. The wounds of many many years were healed (I’m talking serious brokenness) my body was healed of severe headaches, palpitations, womb pain, I started understanding scripture better, my life began to change. I used to be so mean and didn’t like people , now I can’t stop myself from loving and loving and loving some more. I learnt how to give , to genuinely smile, to serve diligently, to die to self. It was during worship that the spirit of depression got off my back! Things that people think need intense warfare came through worship. Not every breakthrough comes from boxing the devil, although I encourage warfare, I’m a war girl, I don’t play games with Satan! l was never born to give the devil peace oh no!! When I fight , I fight to scatter! But you know, breakthroughs can come from the stillness in worship, where you are the prayer point, the sacrifice, you become heavens sound of worship!

I’m sharing this with you because I’ve seen how many of us only have energy for warfare but during worship we are so rigid and stiff, no sensitivity to what God is doing. This is because we are not aware of the power of worship. We perish because of lack of knowledge! We think it’s all about music, all about the notes, we look for things that don’t matter, if the moment is about self , it is no longer worship. Today, l encourage you to worship the Lord your God. Those who despise worship are proud people and they should not expect any help from God. He opposes the proud. I will not add a song suggestion today, I want you to find one yourself, you can even do it without music. Be intentional about spending intimate time with God today. Again, I’m sending you my love and big big hugs! Can’t wait to hear your testimony!