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Heyyyyyyy ! I am V OF THE MOST HIGH GOD. Welcome to the Yielded Center. Through my reflections on faith, my meditations on scripture and intimacy with Holy Spirit, l aim to inspire my readers to cultivate an authentic transformative walk with God. We yield by living a spirit led life.
Do you desire this? Then keep showing up here and letās get practical.
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Happy Wednesday, people of God! I just want to take a moment to thank each of you for showing up to read Yielded Blogs, for the reposts I see on your statuses, the shares of my counseling service adverts, the comments, and every bit of support you give; thank you! You are truly a gift to me, and Iām so grateful to continue serving both God and you.
Worship is one of the essential things you must learn if you want to build a lasting kingdom vision. I donāt know about you, but true worship breaks something within me, it strips away self and begins to fill me with more of God. In worship, itās never about us; itās all about GOD and GOD ALONE! Just listen to what David says in the Psalms:
āIt does not belong to us, Lord. The praise belongs to you because of your love and loyalty.ā āāPsalms⬠ā115ā¬:ā1⬠āICBā¬ā¬
It does not belong to us! It is not ours! The glory belongs to the Lord. So worship is not about you and your list of things you want before the end of the day. It is for Gods glory! Anytime you try to take the glory, remember thereās a man in the bible who died because of it! āOn a chosen day Herod put on his royal robes. He sat on his throne and made a speech to the people. Herod did not give the glory to God. So an angel of the Lord caused him to become sick. He was eaten by worms and died.ā āāThe Acts⬠ā12ā¬:ā21ā¬, ā23⬠āICBā¬ā¬ Hereās a song ;
āI will praise the Lord at all times. I will constantly speak his praises.ā āāPsalms⬠ā34ā¬:ā1⬠āNLTā¬ā¬
Can you dance? I know you probably just said no. But what if I told you⦠itās not about how well you dance? Itās not about mastering the moonwalk or nailing a breakdance routine. Praise isnāt about performance itās about the posture of your heart.
Praise can be expressed in any āappropriateā dance, yes, but hear me: you donāt have to be the best dancer to glorify God. Look at David, he danced with all his might! Not with all his perfect choreography, but with all his heart, his passion, his intentionality. It wasnāt a show, it was surrender.
Sometimes youāve got to lock yourself in your room and have your own Hallelujah Challenge. Dance. Shout. Cry. Praise! Not just on Sundays, but at all times! So⦠are you ready?
Letās continue from yesterdayās blog, where we began discussing how to not only build but also nurture the kingdom visions God has entrusted to us. I shared four points in that post, and today, Iāll be adding four more. I pray these words continue to inspire and empower you as you pursue His purpose.
Iāve come to understand that whether youāre building an organisation, a ministry (which Iām still learning about), or even a business you must pray. Prayer isnāt optional for the believer; itās essential. Scripture says, āMen ought always to pray and not faintā thatās not a suggestion, itās a divine instruction.
One of the issues Iāve noticed is that many people are quick to send out prayer requests, but they donāt pray themselves. They rely on others to stand in the gap while they remain silent. But hereās the truth: what if the person you sent that prayer request to forgets? What if they get busy? Will you let your destiny hang in the balance because you refused to open your mouth and declare life over what youāre building?
You need to pray over your work. Pray into the future. Speak things like, āLord, even next year shall be good,ā because the words you release in prayer are prophetic bricks. Without prayer, even the strongest-looking structure will start to fall apart. The winds will come, and without that spiritual foundation, the whole thing may be blown away.In this kingdom, I donāt know of anything that has truly lasted without prayer.
Number Six: Get Knowledge.
Weāre living in a time where some people see a book and immediately switch off. The moment reading is involved, they choose ignorance and thatās a dangerous mindset. Learning should never stop. Every day weāre picking up new information some of it foolish, if weāre honest so why not intentionally learn the things that will shape and prepare you for what God is calling you to build?
How can you expect to build something well when you know nothing about it? Imagine hiring a construction company to build your house, and when they arrive they say, āWe donāt actually know how to build⦠we didnāt study for this, but trust us, letās all hope for a good outcome.ā Would you proceed? Of course not. Why? Because youāre investing too much to let your vision fall into the hands of the unqualified.
Itās the same with your kingdom assignment. You must invest in knowledge. Study the Word. Learn from others. Enroll in courses. Read books. Iāve finished certain courses, yet I keep going back to learn more because I understand that a strong structure requires a well-informed mind. Empty heads donāt build lasting things. And thatās not an insult itās a reality. No one wants to build with or under someone who doesnāt know what theyāre doing. If you have to go back to school, do it. Get the knowledge you need to build well.
The same hours you spend endlessly scrolling on your phone you could be using just two of those to complete an online course. There are 2-hour courses out there packed with wisdom and strategy that could sharpen your vision. Even in the Bible, there are short books you can study deeply in a short amount of time books that carry life-changing revelation. We have to be honest: no one will take a vision seriously if itās fuelled by nothing but excitement and enthusiasm, yet completely lacking in information. Passion without knowledge is a shaky foundation. People invest in prepared visionaries those whoāve taken time to learn, study, and grow. Donāt just be fired up⦠be equipped.
Number Seven: Choose Your Companions Wisely.
I honestly canāt stress this enough, your own companions can destroy what youāre trying to build. Iāve seen it happen. Marriages have crumbled simply because one spouse started listening to the wrong friends and stopped co-building their home. Some friendships were meant to stay in primary school, high school, or wherever you left them and thatās okay.
You donāt need to feel guilty for separating from people who canāt walk with you into your next. Youāre about to birth and build something so you need people who not only believe in you but are also willing to support you if and when the need arises.
Some of you are wondering why your building isnāt progressing, yet a hidden hand in your circle keeps pulling out bricks. So you think youāre moving at a great speed only to be back to square one. A hand is removing bricks. Someone close to you is quietly discouraging others from supporting your vision. Saying things like, āI told her this was impossible, but she insists , letās just watch her fail.ā And then you defend them with, āBut weāve been friends for 21 years!ā
Listen: Years of friendship donāt prove the quality of friendship. Stop hanging around people who discourage, belittle, or sabotage your dreams. You do not need them in your building process. Choose wisely, your destiny depends on it. Many people discouraged us from continuing with MPG. Some even thought it would come to nothing but we are still here because we decided to step away. And if you want to be sure who is really for you? Ask God. Pray the dangerous prayer, He answers those quickly.
I donāt want to overload you with too much information so letās pause here for today. Weāll continue tomorrow. I truly hope youāre learning something valuable and that youāll take these lessons and apply them to your own journey. I love you, and I genuinely canāt wait to see what youāre building. Keep going, and keep growing! šø
Sooooooooo today is a spezhial day! Itās the 4th anniversary of The Midnight Prayer Group šš„¹. Praise the Lord!! One of the biggest lessons Iāve learned while leading MPG is this: make sure the vision is truly from God.
When a vision comes from Him, He sustains it. He protects it sometimes from people, from the enemy, and often times even from you. Iāve seen powerful visions that werenāt born of God, and because of that, they had to be supported by human effort just to survive. Thatās exhausting. You end up carrying what God never asked you to, constantly doing what He wouldāve done had it actually been His assignment. So hereās my advice: Donāt start unless itās from God. And donāt move unless He says go.
Number two: you need to be strong.
And true strength comes from knowing your God. If you donāt know Him and youāre not even trying to know Him you will fall when trials come. I remember a time when leading MPG became so tough, I knelt on the floor, opened my hands, and said, āLord, I hand this group back to You. Please give it the assignment to someone else. I donāt want it anymore.ā Guess what? God didnāt change the situation. He didnāt remove the burden. He gave me strength.
That same evening, I was back on the prayer call, leading with fire, joy, and so much strength. There will be days when it feels like God left you in the field alone that Heās watching from afar. Those are the days when you need to be strong. I donāt know any weak leaders. Leaders have weaknesses, yes but true leaders, especially in the Kingdom, are strong. They have to be. Because the devil doesnāt play easy he always goes the extra mile.
Number three: CONSISTENCY!
At MPG, we have prayer calls every Monday and Wednesday come rain, snow, or sunshine. There is a system in place that holds whether there are 2, 20, or 50 people. Thatās what consistency looks like.
Youāve probably heard that consistency is key. Well, itās not just the key itās also the builder. Where thereās consistency, thereās construction something is being built. And if you keep at it, brick by brick, day by day, showing up again and again, you can build something that reaches the sky. Consistency when youāre excited.Consistency when youāre numb. Itās not based on feelings itās rooted in discipline and intentionality.
Because hereās the truth: you canāt build and then decide to chill. On the days you donāt show up to tend your building, guess who does? The devil. āWhile men slept, the enemy came and sowed tares.ā (Matthew 13:25) He didnāt sow them while they were awake they wouldāve rebuked him. He waited until they slacked off.Brethren, consistency will give you speed and results. Donāt sleep on it.
Number four: Beware of the flesh.
Read this one twice abeg! You cannot do a God-thing in the flesh. You just canāt.The reality is, because youāre human, the flesh will try to creep in, it will. But you must constantly subject it to the Spirit. And this doesnāt happen by accident. It requires intentional, daily surrender.
Let me beg you again. If you carry out a divine assignment in the flesh, you will stain the entire work with your own weaknesses, emotions, and vulnerabilities. There will be moments when anger rises, when frustration brews, when youāre tempted to clap back or quit. Thereās a tug-of-war between Spirit and flesh in those moments and the Spirit man must win.What about temptations? What about heart issues, bitterness, pride, insecurity?They will come. And if you respond in the flesh, you risk not only destroying what youāre building, but also wounding those building with you and harming those in the building.
The flesh says āMEā, The Spirit says āUS.āThe flesh wants to see you fall. The Spirit wants to see you rise and rise stronger. Flesh is a thorn. The Spirit is a soothing balm. All these things are important to learn and apply in order for us to build lasting and impactful kingdom organisations and ministries. Anyhooo, letās continue tomorrow as l teach you things Iāve learnt in the 4 years of MPG! I love you and Iām excited about the 5th year! I know Yielded will also grow in the same manner!
Lilo Kolisang is a dynamic entrepreneur based in Johannesburg, South Africa. A woman of many talents and divine purpose, she is the visionary behind multiple thriving businesses. Her latest venture, Zarephath Apparel, is her newest passion project, while she also graces the beauty industry as the face of O & L Luxury Wigs.
More than just a businesswoman, Lilo is saved and set apart , a minister in song, using her voice to glorify God and uplift others. She carries a deep passion for educating and empowering children, believing in raising a generation rooted in purpose and truth.Today, she joins us on Special Edition Thursday and if youāre an entrepreneur, dreamer, or doer, this is one conversation you donāt want to miss! Tune in and be inspired.
Whatās one verse thatās carried you through tough times?
āDear brothers and sisters, when troubles of any kind come your way, consider it an opportunity for great joy. For you know that when your faith is tested, your endurance has a chance to grow.ā āāJames⬠ā1ā¬:ā2ā¬-ā3⬠āNLTā¬ā¬
The Holy Bible
Entrepreneurs, let todayās blog be your reminder ā it is possible! Aspiring entrepreneurs , you can start today! You can do all things through Christ who strengthens you.
āItās so enjoyable to come before you with uncontainable praises spilling from our hearts! How we love to sing our praises over and over to you, to the matchless God, high and exalted over all! At each and every sunrise we will be thanking you for your kindness and your love. As the sun sets and all through the night, we will keep proclaiming, āYou are so faithful!ā
Melodies of praise will fill the air as every musical instrument, joined with every heart, overflows with worship. No wonder Iām so glad; I canāt keep it in! Lord, Iām shouting with glee over all youāve done, for all youāve done for me: what mighty miracles and your power at workājust to name a few! Depths of purpose and layers of meaning saturate everything you do. Such amazing mysteries are found within every miracle that nearly everyone seems to miss. Those with no discernment can never really discover the deep and glorious secrets hidden in your ways. Itās true the wicked flourish, but only for a moment; they foolishly forget their destiny with death, that they will all one day be destroyed forevermore. But you, OĀ Lord, are exalted forever in the highest place of endless glory, while your opponents, the workers of wickedness, will all perish, forever separated from you.
Your anointing has made me strong and mighty. Youāve empowered my life for triumph by pouring fresh oil over me. Youāve said that those lying in wait to pounce on me would be defeated, and now itās happened right in front of my eyes, and Iāve heard their cries of surrender! Yes! Look how youāve made all your devoted lovers to flourish like palm trees, each one growing in victory, standing with strength! Youāve transplanted them into your heavenly courtyard, where they are thriving before you, for in your presence they will still overflow and be anointed. Even in their old age they will stay fresh, bearing luscious fruit and abiding faithfully. Listen to them! With pleasure they still proclaim: ā
Youāre so good! Youāre my beautiful strength! Youāve never made a mistake with me.ā