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Worship Wednesday

This is the day the lord has made! So what do we do?

We rejoice.

“A joyful, cheerful heart brings healing to both body and soul. But the one whose heart is crushed struggles with sickness and depression.”
‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭17‬:‭22‬ ‭TPT‬‬

Joy is a choice. Think about it. If I wake up and decide, today I’m choosing joy, then no matter what happens, I hold on to it. If someone tries to upset me, I don’t have to take the bait. I am very conscious of my decision to be joyful. I choose to not let frustration in or let my joy slip away just to prove a point. Guarding your heart means protecting what comes in and what goes out. So, no, I won’t trade my joy for an argument. I won’t allow anyone to Bluetooth me to their bad mood. I’m holding onto joy. Say it with me: I am a joyful person!

Lack of joy can actually lead to things like depression and even some illnesses. Imagine getting sick just because you refused to embrace joy! But here’s the good news choosing joy can turn things around. If we make joy our daily choice, depression loses its grip. Want some practical ways to choose joy? Well, this is straight from my own experience , welcome to Vanessa’s Edition!

  1. Laughter . Eh I laugh o. I don’t play. I laugh because even God laughs. Being too serious is not gonna help you with anything. Laugh a little (or a lot), it makes life so much lighter!
  2. Dance. I like to shut myself in my room and really to my own private HC. Especially when I’m angry or sad, l play music and dance it out. Works out ALL THE TIME!
  3. Have faith! Faith is like a shield that protects your joy, while doubt leaves you vulnerably open to stress and anxiety. Trusting God keeps your heart light and your joy intact!
  4. Be friendly! Unfriendly people are often the saddest ones. Sometimes, you “WiFi” joy from your friends—just being around them lifts your mood. But if you don’t want to be friendly, who will you “connect” to on the days you need a little extra joy?
  5. Be content. Contentment is such a healthy emotional space to be in. The moment you start comparing yourself to others, you are on your way to depression level 1! Don’t be a complainer, always murmuring and finding reasons to discourage yourself. And trust me, complaining and murmuring will only drain you. Choose gratitude instead—it keeps your joy fresh!

Now, are you ready to praise Him? It’s funny how some people only dance for Jesus during HC, then go right back to their sad shell afterward. But guess what? Your HC is every day! It’s not just an event, it’s a state of mind.

Here are two song suggestions to get you going this Worship Wednesday! And remember, you choose your mood. So, what’s your choice today?

See you tomorrow for our Special Edition Thursday! YOU DO NOT WANT TO MISS IT

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Going through storms of life [4]

Heyyyyyyyy! Shall we continue? Yes, so STORMS OF LIFE 😅.
The prophet Jonah finds himself in a storm, heavy, life threatening, the bible says it was so intense that it threatened to break the ship. Jonah then decides to pull a standard classic Jesus move and takes a nap. I find that to be so funny because Jesus napped knowing He had control over the storm, what made Jonah so chilled though? I mean you can sleep if you’re sure your faith is intact and you know that you know that you know that God has said chill out. It shows us that you don’t sleep through all storms. Some require that you be thrown into the water and be caught by a fish. There are storms you should never sleep through, the ship will break.

“So the captain went down after him. “How can you sleep at a time like this?” he shouted. “Get up and pray to your god! Maybe he will pay attention to us and spare our lives.”
‭‭Jonah‬ ‭1‬:‭6‬ ‭NLT‬‬

The captain was shook , how could someone be sleeping when the storm was about to take them all out? And honestly, how did Jonah even get sleepy in that chaos? The truth is, what some of us call a season to chill is actually a season of warfare. And when you sleep through that kind of season, you lose more than you realise. Many have mistaken seasons of building for seasons of resting, and now they’re paying heavily for it.

How can you sleep when you should be on your knees, crying out to God for help? Even if you rest, you rest while praying because some seasons demand vigilance, not sleep? One thing about storms they’re loud. The wind blows, the waves crash, and fear creeps in. So how did Jonah not hear that? How did he not feel the turbulence? It’s actually hilarious, like something straight out of a comedy!

Like I said, Jesus had control over the storm. He rested, but not out of ignorance, He knew exactly what He was doing. Wena you don’t know but you’re sleeping. Jonah, on the other hand, was asleep at a time when he should have been up repenting. Big difference! And yet, how often do we copy how others handle their storms? The strategy isn’t always the same! You throw a stone at Goliath, but with the Amorites, you need weapons. Last season’s battle plan might not work for this season.So why sleep when the enemy has stepped into your home? Wake up and fight!

Some of you are in the middle of a spiritual storm, but instead of fighting, you’ve gone numb. You can’t pray anymore two words in, and you’re out. Fasting? Ehhhh! There’s always an excuse. Even watching a sermon feels impossible because distractions keep pulling you away. You’re unstable, disconnected, and you can’t even remember the last time you had a real, heart-to-heart moment with God.

Please, don’t be like Jonah. You are under attack GET UP! Arise! Shake off that spiritual heaviness! Listen, you don’t come out of this by wishing. You come out by DOING. If you sleep through this, your destiny will slip through your fingers. And unlike Jonah, there might not be a fish to rescue you. You risk drowning.

How can you sleep at a time like this? The timing is all wrong. This is NOT the time to snooze because you snooze, you what?

Exactly!

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Feelings – during a storm [3]

Hey, my Yielded Family! I pray you’re all doing well. I’m truly blessed to have each of you here reading my blogs , you are a gift and a blessing! My prayer for you is that you will always remain yielded to God.
Yielding isn’t easy; it requires dying to self, surrendering your own will (which, let’s be honest, is no small task , no lie). It’s about laying yourself down so that Christ can fully live in you, leading your decisions, directing your steps, even influencing the little things, like what you wear. Even when it’s hard, stay yielded! I love you all. Now, let’s continue with Part 3 of our series.

I had something completely different in mind to share today, but as I started typing, I felt led in another direction—feelings.Last night, as I was walking into my room, thinking about what to post on the YC Instagram (by the way, please follow The Yielded Center on Instagram, I need those follows!), a thought came to me: “Feelings are as powerful as your thoughts and your words.” I quickly wrote it down so I wouldn’t forget.This morning, I was ready to go with my original post, but then I heard it again—feelings. So let’s talk about that for a moment.

We already know what a storm is but what are feelings? Feelings are the emotional responses we experience in reaction to our thoughts, circumstances, or interactions with others. Feelings are emotional by nature. They are triggered by experiences, thoughts, and circumstances, making them neither constant nor entirely predictable. Since feelings are a response to something, they naturally surface during storms, trials, or moments of intense situations.

Listen, anyone who claims they’ve never felt anything isn’t functioning as a normal human being. Many of history’s most shocking crimes were committed by individuals who lacked emotional responses. Feelings are important; they are part of what makes us human. So, be mindful of people who are completely nonchalant about everything. And if that’s you, change it’s not cute. A total lack of emotion isn’t strength; it reveals an almost inhuman detachment that can be unsettling and even dangerous. As human beings, we are meant to feel. Don’t romanticise wrong things to look cool.

Now, let’s talk about feelings during a storm. Many of us have responded to life’s storms emotionally l know I have. I used to cry, throw tantrums at God (yes, full-on tantrums!), without realising that when the enemy can’t make you numb, he makes you feel carelessly.

What does that mean? It means your emotions become completely unchecked like a bucket of water knocked over, spilling into every room. And that kind of emotional chaos is dangerous. Think about it there are people who became so overwhelmed with emotion in a storm that they felt like life wasn’t worth living. In that moment, they picked up a gun, poison, or a rope and ended their lives. What was that? Feelings during a storm.

While it’s good to feel, it’s just as important to control your emotions and recognise that the enemy works through your mind to influence your feelings. If he can get a stronghold in your thoughts, he can manipulate your emotions, leading you down a dark path. Stay vigilant. Feel, but don’t let your feelings rule you.

Peter was in a storm. At first, he channeled his feelings correctly he had faith. But then, he shifted his focus to the storm, to the waves, and his mind started receiving information: “You will die.” “This is too much for you—you’ll drown.” And what happened next? The Bible says he felt something different fear. And as soon as fear took over, he started to sink.

Matthew 14:30 (NKJV):

“But when he saw that the wind was boisterous, he was afraid; and beginning to sink he cried out, saying, ‘Lord, save me!’”

In a storm, the best way to channel your emotions is through faith. But here’s the key: faith, like fear, comes from information.

• Faith is built on God’s Word.

• Fear is fueled by the enemy’s whispers.

Are you aware that your feelings can be manipulated? Many people who took their own lives might have wanted to live just an hour before. But the enemy kept pulling the trigger in their minds, feeding them thoughts long enough to manipulate their emotions. You cannot survive a storm with scattered emotions. While it is undeniably hard to stay calm and trust God in the middle of chaos, it’s even worse to be all over the place because the devil is searching for those who feel carelessly.The moment our emotions run wild and unchecked, we become vulnerable. So, what’s the best response in a storm?

“Lord, I see the mess. I hear the thunder. But I choose to trust You. I choose to accept the peace You give me in this storm.”

My beloved family, watch your feelings, watch your emotions, and watch your thoughts. The enemy has taken out far too many kingdom soldiers using this very strategy: create a storm, trigger fearful thoughts, and let the person feel their way into giving up. But not you.

Because we do not give up here.

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Reflection Friday

I came across this on Pinterest, and it really caught my attention. It reminded me of the classic “Where do you see yourself in five years?” question. Growing up, it was so easy to answer, but as adults, many struggle to articulate their purpose. So many people have no idea why they were born, and that lack of clarity is leading to deep misalignment in life.

The gap between the little girl and the woman I see in the mirror is all a matter of time. While writing my book about time, I realised that many people live under the illusion of “What will be, will be.” They drift from one season to the next without a real hunger to fulfill their purpose, believing that someday, like magic, a fairytale godmother will appear and hand them a perfectly laid-out path. But guess what? That’s a lie.

Let’s take a moment to really look at the picture. The little girl is even wearing oversized heels just like so many women today who insist on buying the wrong shoe size (but that’s a conversation for another day, lol). The big shoes symbolise that, at her age, all she can do is dream she hasn’t matured enough to walk that walk yet. But the woman in the mirror? She’s wearing them perfectly, fully capable of not just walking but running in them. So, aren’t you old enough too? It’s time to step into your purpose and start walking.

Now, let’s take a moment to reflect. The decisions you made this week how many of them contributed to your purpose? How many steps did you take in your purpose shoes toward the next level?

A couple of weeks ago, I was thinking about The Yielded Center, and a powerful realisation hit me: what’s inside of me remains hidden until I choose to reveal it. “You don’t know what I carry!” Yes, darling, we don’t know and we never will until you show us. Let’s stop acting like people are taking us for granted when, in reality, we’ve never presented anything solid to begin with. What you carry is already within you. Now, it’s time to reveal it. We only see what you choose to show us. I cannot guess that you can sing until you actually start singing.

Anything we spend time on that doesn’t contribute to our purpose is a waste, and before long, we’ll find ourselves praying for the restoration of the years we wasted not the locusts, but us.

So, take a moment and look within. What is the unique blueprint you carry for the world?

I’ve made my decision The Yielded Center will be global, and I will take the necessary steps to make it happen. I refuse to limit my writing to just my family or a small community. I will study, refine my skills, and present a vision that is undeniably great and excellent.

Now, what will you do about your purpose?

Remember, the only difference between the little girl and the woman in the picture is time and time is not a luxury we can afford to waste.

Selah. ( See you on Monday)

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Special Edition Thursday With Vanessa

Guess what? Our First Ever Special Edition Thursday Interview is finally here! And who’s in the hot seat? Me! Yep, today’s interview is all about yours truly because apparently, my life is interesting enough for this.

The masterminds behind these questions? My older sister Valerie and brother-in-law, who clearly had way too much fun coming up with them. So yeah… buckle up, get to know me (a little. A twinsy winsy little) Let’s go!

🌸 GETTING TO KNOW VANESSA

  • If you describe yourself using only three words, what would they be?

Saved. Smart. Strong.

  • You do so many things counselling, blogging, cartoon creation, singing—if you had an extra hour in the day, how would you use it?
    A ~ “Definitely praying in the Spirit.”
  • What’s one fun fact about you that most don’t know?
    A ~ “I shut myself in my room and dance to Mr M & Revelation songs. I reaaallllly daaaaannncceee!”


🌼 FAITH AND MINISTRY

  • As the founder of The Yielded Center, what’s been the most rewarding part of your journey so far?
    A – “I’d say , my personal growth. The Yielded Center has made me better than l was before I started it.”

  • If you could have a coffee chat with any biblical character (besides Jesus), who would it be and why?
    A- “It would be Joseph. I want him to give me notes that I can write on the Yielded Center for the youth! How to flee 101.”

  • The Midnight Prayer Group what’s the wildest or most powerful testimony you’ve heard from these prayer calls?
    A – “The testimony of a baby who came out of the ICU after doctors said he’d not make it. He’s two years old now.
  • Serving at House of Treasures Ministries, what’s one lesson you’ve learned from Apostle Felix and Ps. Bulelwa Okoh that has stuck with you?
    A- “ Live a holy life and take your spiritual life very seriously.


    🌺 COUNSELLING & IMPACT
  • What’s the funniest or most unexpected moment you’ve experienced in a counselling session? (Without breaking confidentiality, of course!)
    A – Lol none honestly.

  • If you had to write a counselling survival guide, what’s the first rule you’d include?
    A – Guard your heart like you guard your money with an atm pin.

  • What’s one misconception people have about Christian counselling that you’d love to clear up?
    A – “I guess people often think it’s all about prayer. There’s a lot of mental deliverance through words that happens. A LOT. And it requires the same diligence as a circular therapist. It’s WORK!”


    🌻 CREATIVITY
  • You create Christian cartoons and even do the voiceovers, if you could have any celebrity voice one of your characters, who would it be?
    A – Hmmm my best friend Siwe. To me she’s a celebrity, she does the beeeest voice overs.”

  • You create Christian cartoons and even do the voiceovers—how do you manage to record all the different voices and capture their emotions in different moods? Do you ever have a funny moment where a voice comes out totally wrong?
    A – l just get into character and l love it. Creativity requires that you step into a world that only exists in your mind and pull things out and bring them where people can see or hear And yes it does get funny most times when I’m doing a dialogue. One time I recorded something about 6/7 times still getting it wrong. I took a break and tried again later.”

  • If your life were turned into a cartoon, what would the title of your theme song?
    A – Little Miss Courageous

  • If you could animate a Bible story in your own unique style, which one would you choose and why?
    A – “John the Baptist! lol I think he’s an interesting character. His script would be FIRE 😂 “


🌸 BLOGGING & WRITING

  • You blog daily, where do you get all your inspiration from? Do you ever get writer’s block?
    A – I love reading the Bible, it’s in my face daily so l get my inspiration from there. I do get writers block but those are the days I actually write my best pieces. The most read and liked blog I wrote was on a day when l had writer’s block and I just said “Lord help me.”

  • If you could turn one of your blog posts into a short film, which one would it be and why?
    A – “It would be When you leave. Because we all had to leave something or a place to get to where we are now. Everyone would relate.”

  • What’s a comment or response from a reader that has really stuck with you?
    A – Someone from Instagram who l never even knew reads my blogs sent me a dm and said “Please don’t stop. This has made me fix my relationship with Jesus.” And that week I realllllly wanted to quit. No jokes.

🌹 PERSONAL & FUN QUESTIONS

  • If you could instantly master one new skill, what would it be?
    A – “Cooking. I mean I can but yeah we are talking mastery here.”

  • Since you’re also a singer, what’s your go-to worship song when you need encouragement?
    A – There’s not a friend like the lowly Jesus.

  • What’s your dream mission trip destination, and what would you do there?
    A – Not to sound too spiritual but Heaven. I will get there and look at Jesus and just cry because He’s so beautiful!

  • What’s one thing on your bucket list that you haven’t done yet?
    A – Building a neat proper studio for my production work.”

  • If your future kids could only watch one of your cartoons, which one would you want them to see first?
    A – The birth of Jesus. It was my first ever cartoon and that’s when I was like ,ah I can really do this o.”

  • Tea or coffee?
    A – “Tea BUT salted caramel coffee twice a month!”

  • Movies or Music?
    A – “Music. My attention span on movies has dropped drastically” 😂

  • Favourite book of the Bible?
    A – GALATIANS! NEHEMIAH ! EZRA! You didn’t ask but my favourite verse is Galatians 4:19

  • Most used emoji?
    A – I’ve got two . 😂 & ❤️

  • If you had to rename The Yielded Center, what’s the funniest name you could come up with?
    A – Vanessa and friends 😂

  • Are you married?
    A – “Have a good day.”

My favourite words to say are , “Help me Holy Spirit,” and “I love you.”

Vanessa Ziyambi