Category: The Overcoming Believer

Another weekend people of God, and the last weekend of January at that. It feels like we only just entered the new year, full of excitement, plans and expectations, and now just like that January is already coming to an end. I want to wake you up from any little sleep or slumber that may be creeping in, because time is already moving. Today is Reflection Friday, a moment where we must ask ourselves the difficult but necessary questions. 

We have eleven months to go, and this is how we will count down until December. So take a moment and honestly ask yourself, what have you done in January? List at least three things you intentionally did , because thirty-one days is a long time to say nothing happened. No excuses. Every month-end, I will ask.

One of the many reasons we struggle to move forward is our desire to be “pampered” in the wrong, expecting even God to understand why we couldn’t pray because we fell asleep while scrolling on social media. In my book, A Thing Called Time, I speak about how the clock never asks for permission to move to the next hour whether you are mindful of it or not, time is moving. Some of you need to get the book.

There is no magic that will simply jump over your twelve prayer points and suddenly leave you with everything figured out. Growth requires intention, discipline, and effort. There is work to be done , so marry yourself to the work. People often plan to start the work in February, saying “I’ll begin on the 1st of February,” and when mid-February arrives, the same promise is pushed to the 1st of March. Before they realise it, they are singing the same song all the way until December. What exactly are you waiting for? Wake up!

People of God, I heard a statement yesterday that truly changed my life: laziness is a sign of a defeated thought process (PDL). Don’t rush past that. To check whether your mind is active and effective, you must examine your energy, your zeal, and your daily activities. The health of your mindset is revealed by what you do with your day. Many people claim they are waiting on God, when in truth the real struggle is in their minds. The most dangerous place to be is when a person believes they are fine, yet blames God, money, or other people for their stagnation. When you can no longer see your own faults, you are in a pit so deep that even help sent to you cannot be recognised.

I want to push you out of your comfort zone. Do you know that someone made a million in January? Someone with no start-up money has already designed their logo, planned a business strategy, opened a social media account, created a budget, and begun the work even without the money. And God sees that seriousness. Someone just like you, with no parental support to start life, became a millionaire. I am saying this to remind you that there are no excuses for why nothing happened in January. What books did you read? What seminars did you attend? This is the purpose of Reflection Friday , to dust off the dust and bring clarity.

Again, January is over and you cannot still be the same person. There is a young lady who put together a PDF of her plans and approached me, asking if I would be her accountability partner. I often avoid doing that because I know I’m not always consistent, but when I opened her PDF and saw the depth of her planning and the level of seriousness, I was compelled to say yes I will do it. 

Every time I ask her what has been done, she gives me clear answers and I’m left thinking, wow, this is surely someone going somewhere BIG. Some of you say you want accountability, yet you expect mentors to beg you to act, to constantly remind you to do ABC. I must sound stern today because I have seen too much potential thrown away by people who believe the year will somehow change without any effort on their part. For an entire month I have written and shared ways to occupy, and you say “wow, powerful,” but liking this blog alone will not change your life. Wake up. You are turning a new age this year, and I say this with all the love in my heart, you will be a year older this year. Wake up.

I close by saying this, all your plans will remain just plans if you do nothing to make them happen. God will not come down and type your CV for you, and no angel will appear with a fully prepared business budget in hand. You are the one who must go to Canva, explore the many available apps, use the data you already have to research meaningful things, and begin putting structure to your vision. 

Let money find you ready, because if it finds you with no plan, you will spend it on McDonald’s. That’s how people have eaten business money. That’s how I ate mine. I had no structure so when it came, I used it carelessly. Then I realised no, it found me empty of a plan. But Now? Hehe! 

Scripture even instructs us, “Go to the ant, thou sluggard; consider her ways, and be wise: which having no guide, overseer, or ruler, provideth her meat in the summer, and gathereth her food in the harvest” (Proverbs 6:6–8).

WAKE UP and do something!
See you on Monday. I love you.

Now, if you read my blogs but have never met this  Wonderful Jesus that I’m always writing about,  you’d love to get to know Him, Or you know The Lord but have found yourself drifting far from Him, I would love to talk with you. Please send me an email  on yieldedcwcenter@gmail.com or simply comment, and I will reach out to you. 

It’s Worship Wednesday!!! 🎈

I have a song I’ve been seriously abusing , Emmanuel by John Fadejola. And to my Nigerian people 🇳🇬 since around May last year, I’ve been stuck on Amb. Chinyere Udoma, especially the song Oke Orimili. Only found out yesterday that I’ve been singing the wrong lyrics (obviously)😭 Will I stop? Most probably not , because reading Igbo is a real struggle for me. But yes, that’s what I’ve been listening to lately. What have you been listening to? Yesterday we discussed the topic , Helping others to occupy.

Moses said, “The Lord your God has given you this land to live in. But all your strong men must cross the Jordan River and help the other Israelites. You must help your brothers until the Lord gives them rest, just as He has given you rest. When they also receive the land the Lord promised them, then you may return to your homes that were given to you.”

Deuteronomy 3:18–20 (Easy to Read Version)

I know many people who love to receive help but will never help anyone else, they ask, demand, and take, yet never think of supporting another person. Those are the ones you must be careful of, even in friendship. Meanwhile, many people are in great spaces today simply because someone once called and said, “I think your skills are needed here,” or “I saw this opportunity and thought of you,” and that single act of thoughtfulness is how they stepped in, occupied, and even took ground for Jesus!

As friends, we share our goals and talk about what we want to do, so when you come across something that may help your friend , tell them. We will not all occupy the same space, we will not all receive the same land, and we will not get the same opportunities, but we can all help each other. We can link one another, we can connect one another. Black people, please , change! If your neighbour cannot pay fees and you know organisations that sponsor, help them apply. It is in every part of life. I later found out who got me on radio, and it was a friend of mine who spoke about me last year; even though the gap only opened this year, my friend helped me to occupy.

One referral can change someone’s life. Tell people you know a singer and point them to the lady in the choir. Tell people you know a writer , tell them about me, obviously lol. Tell people you know a great minister, tell them about someone from MPG, vele. Tell people you know the best designer, tell them about someone from your workplace. Tell people you know someone who does hair and nails, connect them to the sister in church. Help others to occupy! Help them with clients, help them with that open door you see but cannot fit into.

Some doors are not for you, but someone you know can walk through them. You can’t sing, but you know someone who can, text them and send the poster. Moses told the Reubenites and Gadites to help their brothers until they found rest; do you see the weight of that obligation? Help them until they settle, until they occupy. Married women, help the singles occupy , stop gossiping, call them, give good advice, pray for them. Married men, take up a single brother and help him, even through prayer. Life could be far less complex if those who reached the top of the mountain shouted down to those climbing, showing them the way. What many people truly need is help. They are not lazy, not complacent, not stubborn, they just need someone to help them occupy.

The truth is, we all have something we can help someone with, we truly do. Moses taught the two tribes how to love, because help is an act of love. If I can help you, rest assured that I love you and if I refuse to help, then I have either refused to love or denied myself an opportunity to love someone. Many people want to help God, who needs no help, yet they will not help a friend who has no food. One of my life’s commitments is to help people, to be the solution, the answer and then share the gospel.

Some of our neighbours refuse to come to church today because they once asked for salt and were told there was none when you had 20kgs. Where I can help, no one will have to ask me twice, I will cross the Jordan River and stand with my brothers until they occupy. Help begins at home. One of the things my mom taught us early was to help wherever we could: if you have an extra R20, bring a tomato home; if you have R200, pass by Checkers and buy rice to ease the stress; if you have R30, give it to your little brother for school lunch.

You see, help doesn’t have to be in thousands , it’s a mindset of responsibility that gives someone else rest and takes away their worry. That woman in your area struggling with pampers doesn’t need questions about where her man is, she needs help, buy some and give her. Help is not about getting something back; we help because we ourselves are helped by God. Should we not be like Him? 

Sometimes we say, “Ah, but they didn’t ask,” yet some people will never ask again because the last time they did, they were rejected and made to feel small. When you see a child’s shoe is torn, discern and give. I promise you, a life of helping and receiving help is a life that reaches heights we never imagined. We can help each other occupy, we can fight together, speak about one another’s services, and recommend each other’s skills and talents. If your workplace needs a keyboard player, don’t rush to hire a stranger when someone in church needs that opportunity.

If a makeup artist is needed for a wedding, of course choose someone who can truly do the work so the bride doesn’t look like a clown on her big day but still recommend others where you can. And lastly, support someone’s business by paying for their services, whether they are family or not, friend or not. I hope we understand that we can occupy through someone else’s help. Don’t be quick to be rude to people; the person next to you may be the one God will use to help you reach that goal. Remember God’s help comes through people and you could be the one He wants to use for that situation. See you on Friday.

Now, if you read my blogs but have never met this  Wonderful Jesus that I’m always writing about,  you’d love to get to know Him, Or you know The Lord but have found yourself drifting far from Him, I would love to talk with you. Please send me an email  on yieldedcwcenter@gmail.com or simply comment, and I will reach out to you. 

I love yous.🌹

We live in a world plagued with selfishness, and it starts early , as early as kindergarten, where we refuse to lend others our extra pencils and throw tantrums when they get lost, claiming our parents bought them overseas. Yho guys! Kids and lies! In primary and high school it grows into how we handle friendships and relationships, and by the time we reach university or college, we can’t even share a meal with a hungry student , we eat in hiding.

We enter the workplace, where selfishness reaches level 100, with people backstabbing coworkers just to take their positions or gain favour with the boss. Eventually, we become selfish husbands and wives who cannot allow opinions or differing perspectives, and later selfish parents who raise selfish children and the cycle continues. Today’s topic is Helping Others to Occupy. My friend and l have been doing a study on the Old Testament and so this topic came from that study. Let’s read scrizha

Deuteronomy 3:18–20 (Easy to Read Version)
Moses said, “The Lord your God has given you this land to live in. But all your strong men must cross the Jordan River and help the other Israelites. You must help your brothers until the Lord gives them rest, just as He has given you rest. When they also receive the land the Lord promised them, then you may return to your homes that were given to you.”

Now if you have read about the journey of the Israelites, you know it was a journey to occupy. Just a side note there, there is a process behind occupying. When they got to a certain place the tribes of Gad and Rueben decided to stay there. The tribes of Reuben and Gad had many animals. When they saw the land of Jazer and Gilead, they noticed that it was good for raising livestock.So they went to Moses and the leaders of Israel and said, “This land is good for our animals. Please let us stay here and do not make us cross the Jordan River.” That is Numbers 32.

Later on, we meet these same people again and Moses says to them, yes, you may have the land you asked for, but you will only occupy it after you have helped your brothers; you must help them until they also find rest. Yet in this selfish world we live in, once people occupy, they don’t just refuse to help , they gatekeep. After COVID, when many people were moving overseas, some began hiding opportunities from others, and I kept asking myself, why? And I’m sorry to call out our race, but it is true , as Black people, we often struggle with helping one another to have what we have or even more.

It is almost as if some people find comfort in watching others remain stuck, as though another person’s advancement threatens their own. People will tell you “mysteries” about how they occupied , SMOOTH LIES, making it sound so complex and unreachable. Sometime in 2025, a lady from Ghana sent me a DM asking how to become a counsellor; I had never met her before, we only spoke for two days, but I gave her every link and shared everything I did because she said she wanted to build her career, and why should I stop her? We have never spoken again, but I was glad she could also find her gap. This is what it means to help people occupy .

If you get job opportunities, help people, if you are in a position where you can lift someone, help them. You already have your land, yes now help others. What will it steal from you to share a job link with someone? What will it take from you to say, “I actually know someone who knows someone who can help you do ABC”? Where will you break if you cross over the Jordan and help your brothers fight until they possess Canaan, then return to your land?

Help someone occupy through prayer, when will you start interceding for others? Every time you are the one asking for prayer, when will you text those who are always praying for you and ask, “How can I help you occupy through prayer?” This year, we must kill selfishness. Hardened hearts that do not even flinch when they see someone in pain, despite knowing exactly what to do , all that must stop.

I want to continue this topic tomorrow because we need to go a bit deeper, to actually look at the practical ways we can help each other to occupy. This year? We will occupy, my people. We will not just step into our land, we will lift others to theirs. Get ready, because tomorrow we’re going to get very practical about how to do it, step by step.

Now, if you read my blogs but have never met this  Wonderful Jesus that I’m always writing about,  you’d love to get to know Him, Or you know The Lord but have found yourself drifting far from Him, I would love to talk with you. Please send me an email  on yieldedcwcenter@gmail.com or simply comment, and I will reach out to you. 

I love yous. 

Happy Monday, my Yielded People! 💕

Last week, we spoke about occupying on time. Update: that very day, I rushed to the washing line, and today, there are curtains on the windows. I made sure what happened didn’t repeat itself. People of God, that is what we must always do , learn from our mistakes and correct what we can immediately.

Do you know how many blogs you’ve reacted to here but haven’t corrected the mistakes in your own life? It’s still very much part of your reality. Why? Because we are quick to make mistakes but slow to correct them. Occupying on time is not just about starting; it’s about acting without delay. Think about this: you meet a beautiful young lady, someone with all the qualities you want in a partner, but you hesitate , counting stars, pondering, waiting  and another brother marries her. That’s an issue of not occupying on time.

“Look carefully then how you walk! Live purposefully and worthily and accurately, not as the unwise and witless, but as wise (sensible, intelligent people), Making the very most of the time [buying up each opportunity], because the days are evil. Ephesians‬ ‭5‬:‭15‬-‭16‬ ‭AMPC‬‬

It says intelligent & sensible people make most of the time. You get a business idea, God nudges you, but you delay , counting sand, planning later. Next thing, someone you know executes the same idea. I wrote a book, The Heart Condition, but I was busy counting sheep. I saw someone else publish a book with the same title even the cover resembled my vision. What happened? I did not occupy on time. What I’m trying to say is simple: if you won’t, someone else will. If you are lazy, someone else is diligent. The one who is time-conscious will possess the land.

Some people don’t care about when they occupy, they only care about occupying. When? They haven’t thought about it. A vision board full of amazing things is meaningless without timing. Planning to occupy “someday” is not wisdom. Many goals remain unfulfilled because they were never timed. We attempt to occupy at the last minute, in November, when panic sets in because a new year is coming.

I’m speaking from experience , laziness is a habit that invites a spirit, and no lazy person can occupy on time. Forget it. Time-consciousness is key. The Master says, “Occupy until I come.” When is He coming? You do not know. That’s why timing matters. Buy oil on time, or you will miss the bridegroom. The foolish virgins were late because they postponed preparation. They waited for later, and the door shut. The door can shut before you occupy because you decide to postpone, start with unimportant things, drag your feet, or think you’ll do it later. Let me give you free advice or pressure , your choice, people are busy putting their lives together. Put yours together so that you don’t roll on the floor in December when the door of 2026 shuts.

Some things planned for June can be done in January, but we postpone because we love comfort, hate pressure, and hate accountability. Oh my wows people have asked me to “mentor” them and I’m like “My dear just leave me o.” Cos people hate accountability. We hate the discomfort of facing the issue now. We hate the pressure. We hate answering the questions of why it can’t be done now. We love it when we can say, “By October.”

The five wise virgins got extra oil on time. They were ready. The Bible calls them wise. When you are not time-conscious, the opposite is true. Arrive late, even if you look perfect, and the front seats are gone. Sometimes the entire room is packed with people who woke up ready to occupy that seat on time. Occupy on time. Start on time. Enquire on time. Study on time. Approach her on time, Get the oil on time. Plan and prepare on time. Wake up on time. Put the project and presentation together on time. Learn to do things on time. 

The washing line is filling up with those serious about their clothes drying. Nobody is coming to beg you to hang your curtains. Hang them at 2pm if you like, the issue is, you are not the only one with wet clothes. Keep tabs on yourself. You don’t know what winds will come tomorrow. Today, when the sun is out, hang your curtains , on time. At the end of every month I will ask, why did you not occupy.

Now, if you read my blogs but have never met this  Wonderful Jesus that I’m always writing about,  you’d love to get to know Him, Or you know The Lord but have found yourself drifting far from Him, I would love to talk with you. Please send me an email  on yieldedcwcenter@gmail.com or simply comment, and I will reach out to you. 

I love yous. 

It’s Reflection Fridayyyy! How has your week been? Are we still fasting? Are we praying? I hope you’re not one of those people who say they will do their own fast later. Everything is always “later” for them. I always feel somehow about such people because what they don’t know or are ignorant of is, there is an aspect of time that matters in decision making even as we will discuss today. I don’t think anyone needs explanation as to why this beginning of the year fast is important. Children are fasting! Yes. But adults will be talking stories about how they will start tomorrow and that’s how people have piled years of not occupying because “tomorrow.”

Let me tell you how today’s blog came about.

Like I said, when we received the theme from our Apostle, I started listing topics on how we can occupy. I looked at many aspects of life. Some I had to rule out because they didn’t make sense, lol. Yes, sometimes I write things and then delete them because I’m like, “Nah, this will confuse people more than it will help them.” This topic wasn’t even part of my listed topics, but it came to me yesterday. Let me tell you what happened.

The washing line story

I washed my curtains at the same time I washed a pair of sneakers. When it was time to go to the laundry, I decided to start by drying the sneakers you know how you have to prep dry white sneakers. It took time. By the time I was done, it was still morning. The sun was nicely out. I thought, my curtains will dry beautifully and everyone will be happy, right? I made my way to the laundry and guess what? The lines that were not full at the time when I could have started with the curtains were now fuller than my stomach at 6pm when we break the fast. No space. And I’m not exaggerating, there wasn’t even space to hang a handkerchief. Even the lady who had hung her clothes was still squeezing more things in. Again, like me after 6pm.

I stood there for a while looking at what’s happening to my dezzztiny. The space there was maybe to hang curtains of a rat house Lol. That’s when it hit me , I should have come in earlier and then done the sneakers later, because the sneakers didn’t even need the washing line. I turned back with my curtains. And the whole day, I kept checking. She probably hung the clothes and went somewhere, because even when they were dry, nobody came to clear the lines for me. The reason why wet curtains that were supposed to be on the lines were in the house still wet is, I decided to occupy late.

Some people are going to do this , this year. You have your things ready, but you’re starting with the most unimportant ones. You’re supposed to register a business or start pushing ABC, but instead you begin with the least important things. By the time you finally get to what matters, the spaces are already filled. This January you could’ve been busy already occupying but you started off with rest or something that could be done later. There are no gaps in this life that nobody wants to fill. Someone wants what you want too.

The sneakers needed to be dried too , yes, but I could have done that after, because I was going to put them on the balcony anyway. Someone will occupy before you, if you keep dragging your feet. The registration for university? Why do it “later” when you are not the only one who matriculated in 2025. “I have favour, doors will open for me. 11th hour miracle. Wara wara.” Then you start to groan and travail on things that just needed to be addressed on time. Using positive declarations to cover up for your decision to be slow. “Let the wind carry her clothes to Durban and clear room for me to put my curtains!” And we think God answers such prayers? Must people who were diligent and serious be removed from the posts because of you?

What’s another lesson there? You are not the only one applying. You’re not the only one who wants to occupy. Everyone who heard the word has plans and some have the exact plan as you. I wasn’t the only person who decided to do laundry on a Thursday morning, and because I wasn’t the only one, it means other people’s laundry was just as important as mine. It wasn’t based on who has lived in the complex longer, who is younger or older, it was based on who got there first. Getting there first matters! We have seen it in almost everything.

Throw away the mindset that you will find space because you are younger, older, or pretty; the world doesn’t care. I’ve seen people do this many times, especially elders , they stand at the gate talking and chatting, enter the room very late, and there’s no chair anymore, and guess who stands up? A younger person. It is right to honour our elders, by the way , I’m just saying, honour the time. Don’t use age or anything as a privilege this year, or you may not occupy. The ones who set out first, who have planned to have their laundry dry today so they can focus on other things are already on the washing line. Maybe wena you are even still sleeping, you haven’t done the laundry lol.

Occupying on time is so important, I can’t even stress this enough. Maybe that’s even why we fast every January, but I know someone is already planning to kick start theirs later, with no consciousness of time at all. The Bible says, “Of the sons of Issachar, who had understanding of the times, to know what Israel ought to do” (1 Chronicles 12:32). Why would God give a group of young men understanding of time? Why is time so important to God? By the way, my book A Thing Called Time will help you A LOT this year , it is a tool for life decision-making and for understanding how to make the most of time. Buy it.

You need to understand that nobody is going to take the blame for your delayed obedience this year nobody, not even Satan. “Oh, I was lazy,” “Oh, I was a bit sick, l think dust entered my eyes” not even those things. Sometimes I’ve had to do things not perfectly fine because it mattered that they were done at that time. You have to check the time! Check the clock! How old are you?! “Oh, that’s rude. Age is nothing but a number?” Sweetheart, age is not just a number, it’s how old you are! Imagine if I decided that age is just a number so I’ll do my grade one class now, learning to write and crayon and all those things kids learn.

The early bird does catch the worm. Don’t be fooled by sentimental phrases that comfort and pamper you into delayed action. “Oh, you poor thing, you still have 11 months, you can surely build a business, start your year soft. Don’t rush,” says the voice of deceit. Sometimes you have to rush people of God. We listen to that voice of deceit every year, and before we know it, it’s December. Do you know what God said to Joshua? “You are now old,” but you haven’t done ABC meaning there’s a time God is expecting me to finish certain things. Joshua l was hoping at this age and time you have occupied more cities so you grew old but wasted time.

We have to do part two because I have so much more to say on this. Occupy on time. Why must you always be doing “catch up”? Why not do things on time? Or else you’ll be like me, the spaces will fill up, you’ll go back with wet curtains and a house without curtains, and you’ll have nobody to blame but yourself. Start with the curtains, then the sneakers okay? Have a wonderful weekend, and please, consider these things. I love you 💕

Now Joshua was old and advanced in years, and the Lord said to him, ‘You are old and advanced in years, and there remains yet very much land to be possessed.’

Joshua 13:1 ESV