Reflection Friday

Hey Yielded People. It’s the last Friday of the month. Let’s get to the monthly review but before that, l wanna find out, how are you? How have you been? Are you okay? Joyful? On a scale of 100% , how would you rate your current state?

Let’s play a movie of your February 2026 right from the first day. That’s you on the 1st of February and this is you today on the 27th. 27 days, 624 hours, how can we account for that? This February I had a goal to read atleast 2 books, I dropped my standard from 4 in January and could only read one book. I don’t have any excuse, I was distracted but I surely had time to pick up another book but chose not to.

You see, you have to learn to be honest with yourself. The many “l was busys” we say are actually lies. It’s the indiscipline of not managing our time well. Dropping the standard should not even be a part of our 2026. We should get better and better. None of us should be starting off well and then somewhere along the way we start making excuses. If you were praying in January, pray in February. I’ve come to realise from my own experiences that once you start with “l will do it later,” the later to actually do will never come. What will come is the monthend with no results, the monthend with nothing but mediocrity, but who’s to blame?

Reflection Friday is for us to really think. Sit down and think. What could you have achieved if you didn’t take a break that Tuesday? The Friday you slept all day? The Sunday you missed church? The Monday you started your book and a few moments later started scrolling on social media. It’s two weeks later now with many unfinished tasks. What stole the time? Was the time stolen or was it given away voluntarily to what did not elevate you.

The thing is, someone utilised their days in February. They managed to use their time wisely. The worst lie you can tell yourself is “Everyone is doing it.” No sir. No ma’am. Not everyone is randomly resting from no work. Not everyone is on social media 14hrs. Not everyone is postponing. Not everyone is hesitant. Not everyone folded hands and didn’t occupy. Not everyone is resultless (my own word before you wan check on the dictionary) Not everyone is saying “l could’ve done things differently” because they actually did things differently and I celebrate each and everyone of you who managed to occupy in one way or the other.

Shall we take up a challenge for March? Reducing the time we spend on social media and tv , replacing it with something meaningful like learning a skill, refining yourself, doing something that will equip you for the spaces you want to occupy. Who’s in? Go to your phone settings, set a limit for your social media. Once you get the notification that’s all the relationship you have with social media on that day. People of God, it’s not to control or impose, it’s to grow and build. We are going into the 3rd month of 2026 and many people think they have time … I don’t even wanna start on that one. All l can say is, do not be outsmarted by the same spirit that outsmarted you last year.

“See, today I appoint you over nations and kingdoms to uproot and tear down, to destroy and overthrow, to build and to plant.”
Jeremiah 1:10 NIV

This applies to your goals for gym. You’ve been announcing and announcing, or is the gym you want to go to still being built? Maybe go help them build it fast fast😂. For your skin. For your health. Development of your mind. Your spiritual life. All round growth starts with a step then achieving goals is in repeating those steps.

I hope you caught the drift. I intend to do better in March. What about you? See you in March.💕

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