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The Yielded Believer

Birthing and Building A Kingdom Vision {2}

Let’s continue from yesterday’s blog, where we began discussing how to not only build but also nurture the kingdom visions God has entrusted to us. I shared four points in that post, and today, I’ll be adding four more. I pray these words continue to inspire and empower you as you pursue His purpose.

I’ve come to understand that whether you’re building an organisation, a ministry (which I’m still learning about), or even a business you must pray. Prayer isn’t optional for the believer; it’s essential. Scripture says, “Men ought always to pray and not faint” that’s not a suggestion, it’s a divine instruction.

One of the issues I’ve noticed is that many people are quick to send out prayer requests, but they don’t pray themselves. They rely on others to stand in the gap while they remain silent. But here’s the truth: what if the person you sent that prayer request to forgets? What if they get busy? Will you let your destiny hang in the balance because you refused to open your mouth and declare life over what you’re building?

You need to pray over your work. Pray into the future. Speak things like, “Lord, even next year shall be good,” because the words you release in prayer are prophetic bricks. Without prayer, even the strongest-looking structure will start to fall apart. The winds will come, and without that spiritual foundation, the whole thing may be blown away.In this kingdom, I don’t know of anything that has truly lasted without prayer.

Number Six: Get Knowledge.

We’re living in a time where some people see a book and immediately switch off. The moment reading is involved, they choose ignorance and that’s a dangerous mindset. Learning should never stop. Every day we’re picking up new information some of it foolish, if we’re honest so why not intentionally learn the things that will shape and prepare you for what God is calling you to build?

How can you expect to build something well when you know nothing about it? Imagine hiring a construction company to build your house, and when they arrive they say, “We don’t actually know how to build… we didn’t study for this, but trust us, let’s all hope for a good outcome.” Would you proceed? Of course not. Why? Because you’re investing too much to let your vision fall into the hands of the unqualified.

It’s the same with your kingdom assignment. You must invest in knowledge. Study the Word. Learn from others. Enroll in courses. Read books. I’ve finished certain courses, yet I keep going back to learn more because I understand that a strong structure requires a well-informed mind. Empty heads don’t build lasting things. And that’s not an insult it’s a reality. No one wants to build with or under someone who doesn’t know what they’re doing. If you have to go back to school, do it. Get the knowledge you need to build well.

The same hours you spend endlessly scrolling on your phone you could be using just two of those to complete an online course. There are 2-hour courses out there packed with wisdom and strategy that could sharpen your vision. Even in the Bible, there are short books you can study deeply in a short amount of time books that carry life-changing revelation. We have to be honest: no one will take a vision seriously if it’s fuelled by nothing but excitement and enthusiasm, yet completely lacking in information. Passion without knowledge is a shaky foundation. People invest in prepared visionaries those who’ve taken time to learn, study, and grow. Don’t just be fired up… be equipped.

Number Seven: Choose Your Companions Wisely.

I honestly can’t stress this enough, your own companions can destroy what you’re trying to build. I’ve seen it happen. Marriages have crumbled simply because one spouse started listening to the wrong friends and stopped co-building their home. Some friendships were meant to stay in primary school, high school, or wherever you left them and that’s okay.

You don’t need to feel guilty for separating from people who can’t walk with you into your next. You’re about to birth and build something so you need people who not only believe in you but are also willing to support you if and when the need arises.

Some of you are wondering why your building isn’t progressing, yet a hidden hand in your circle keeps pulling out bricks. So you think you’re moving at a great speed only to be back to square one. A hand is removing bricks. Someone close to you is quietly discouraging others from supporting your vision. Saying things like, “I told her this was impossible, but she insists , let’s just watch her fail.” And then you defend them with, “But we’ve been friends for 21 years!”

Listen: Years of friendship don’t prove the quality of friendship. Stop hanging around people who discourage, belittle, or sabotage your dreams. You do not need them in your building process. Choose wisely, your destiny depends on it. Many people discouraged us from continuing with MPG. Some even thought it would come to nothing but we are still here because we decided to step away. And if you want to be sure who is really for you? Ask God. Pray the dangerous prayer, He answers those quickly.

I don’t want to overload you with too much information so let’s pause here for today. We’ll continue tomorrow. I truly hope you’re learning something valuable and that you’ll take these lessons and apply them to your own journey. I love you, and I genuinely can’t wait to see what you’re building. Keep going, and keep growing! 🌸

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The Yielded Believer

Birthing & Building A Kingdom Vision

Sooooooooo today is a spezhial day! It’s the 4th anniversary of The Midnight Prayer Group 💃🥹. Praise the Lord!! One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned while leading MPG is this: make sure the vision is truly from God.

When a vision comes from Him, He sustains it. He protects it sometimes from people, from the enemy, and often times even from you. I’ve seen powerful visions that weren’t born of God, and because of that, they had to be supported by human effort just to survive. That’s exhausting. You end up carrying what God never asked you to, constantly doing what He would’ve done had it actually been His assignment. So here’s my advice: Don’t start unless it’s from God. And don’t move unless He says go.

Number two: you need to be strong.

And true strength comes from knowing your God. If you don’t know Him and you’re not even trying to know Him you will fall when trials come. I remember a time when leading MPG became so tough, I knelt on the floor, opened my hands, and said, “Lord, I hand this group back to You. Please give it the assignment to someone else. I don’t want it anymore.” Guess what? God didn’t change the situation. He didn’t remove the burden. He gave me strength.

That same evening, I was back on the prayer call, leading with fire, joy, and so much strength. There will be days when it feels like God left you in the field alone that He’s watching from afar. Those are the days when you need to be strong. I don’t know any weak leaders. Leaders have weaknesses, yes but true leaders, especially in the Kingdom, are strong. They have to be. Because the devil doesn’t play easy he always goes the extra mile.

Number three: CONSISTENCY!

At MPG, we have prayer calls every Monday and Wednesday come rain, snow, or sunshine. There is a system in place that holds whether there are 2, 20, or 50 people. That’s what consistency looks like.

You’ve probably heard that consistency is key. Well, it’s not just the key it’s also the builder. Where there’s consistency, there’s construction something is being built. And if you keep at it, brick by brick, day by day, showing up again and again, you can build something that reaches the sky. Consistency when you’re excited. Consistency when you’re numb. It’s not based on feelings it’s rooted in discipline and intentionality.

Because here’s the truth: you can’t build and then decide to chill. On the days you don’t show up to tend your building, guess who does? The devil. “While men slept, the enemy came and sowed tares.” (Matthew 13:25) He didn’t sow them while they were awake they would’ve rebuked him. He waited until they slacked off.Brethren, consistency will give you speed and results. Don’t sleep on it.

Number four: Beware of the flesh.

Read this one twice abeg! You cannot do a God-thing in the flesh. You just can’t.The reality is, because you’re human, the flesh will try to creep in, it will. But you must constantly subject it to the Spirit. And this doesn’t happen by accident. It requires intentional, daily surrender.

Let me beg you again. If you carry out a divine assignment in the flesh, you will stain the entire work with your own weaknesses, emotions, and vulnerabilities. There will be moments when anger rises, when frustration brews, when you’re tempted to clap back or quit. There’s a tug-of-war between Spirit and flesh in those moments and the Spirit man must win.What about temptations? What about heart issues, bitterness, pride, insecurity?They will come. And if you respond in the flesh, you risk not only destroying what you’re building, but also wounding those building with you and harming those in the building.

The flesh says “ME”, The Spirit says “US.”The flesh wants to see you fall. The Spirit wants to see you rise and rise stronger. Flesh is a thorn. The Spirit is a soothing balm. All these things are important to learn and apply in order for us to build lasting and impactful kingdom organisations and ministries. Anyhooo, let’s continue tomorrow as l teach you things I’ve learnt in the 4 years of MPG! I love you and I’m excited about the 5th year! I know Yielded will also grow in the same manner!

I hope you learnt something. ❤️

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Special Edition Thursday with Lilo Kolisang

Meet Lilo Kolisang

Lilo Kolisang is a dynamic entrepreneur based in Johannesburg, South Africa. A woman of many talents and divine purpose, she is the visionary behind multiple thriving businesses. Her latest venture, Zarephath Apparel, is her newest passion project, while she also graces the beauty industry as the face of O & L Luxury Wigs.

More than just a businesswoman, Lilo is saved and set apart , a minister in song, using her voice to glorify God and uplift others. She carries a deep passion for educating and empowering children, believing in raising a generation rooted in purpose and truth.Today, she joins us on Special Edition Thursday and if you’re an entrepreneur, dreamer, or doer, this is one conversation you don’t want to miss! Tune in and be inspired.

  • If you could dress any well known person, who would it be?
    🩵 That would definitely be Ntokozo Mbambo

  • What’s your favourite way to unwind after a busy week?
    🩵 Some time alone watching Apostle Guillermo Maldonado’s Sermons his voice is so calm and it gives some sense of tranquility alternatively go out on a lunch at some beautiful restaurant with good aesthetics and ambience.

  • If you weren’t in the fashion and beauty industries, what alternative career path might you have pursued?
    🩵That would definitely be the media industry .

  • Can you share a fun fact about yourself that most people don’t know?
    🩵 I have a National Diploma in Language Practice and media studies and it shocks people every time I tell them .

  • ⁠Heels 👠 or Sneakers👟 ?
    🩵Heels

  • Sunrise 🌅 or Sunset🌇 ?
    🩵 Sunset

  • The Beach or Mountains?
    🩵 The beach 🏖️
  • What sparked the idea to start your own clothing brand?
    🩵 Besides my mother being a tailor, I’ve always loved clothes and fashion I think I started buying clothes for myself when I was in grade 7 my aunt was just tired of me because I didn’t like anything that she would buy for me . I think it’s also the passion I have for fashion that inspired me to start a clothing brand.

  • Zarephath Apparel is such a unique name, what’s the story behind it?
    🩵 Right !! Zarephath is a name that was derived from the book of 1 Kings 17:8-16 . This is a story about Elijah when God had sent him to Zarephath .God had prepared a woman ( widow ) to feed him . I am church girl so every story is inspired by the bible 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • What’s one tip you’d give someone starting their own business?
    🩵 Pray about it and get the blueprint from the Holy Spirit , research a lot about the business you want to venture into, acquire as much knowledge as you can.

  • Does Zarephath sell apparel for both gents and ladies?
    🩵 Well, for now it’s only for women!

  • Where can people buy your apparel?
    🩵 I’m currently selling online for now but I’m also working towards having a physical store … for now can you find us on Instagram.

  • Do you offer delivery outside your area?
    🩵Yes deliver nationwide!!!

  • Any plans to open a physical store soon?
    🩵 Yes!!! A physical store is coming soon , just a few things I need to accumulate and a lot of knowledge to acquire before going into that route .
  • What’s the name of your wig brand?
    🩵 O and L hair Luxury.


  • Your business is clearly thriving, what advice would you give to someone trying to grow in the hair game?
    🩵 It’s not an easy business to venture into , it needs a lot of consistency and the heart for customers and advertise your business every now and then a good marketing strategy is key .


  • How can someone place an order with you?
    🩵⁠We are working on our website but for now you can just send a Dm on our instagram page ( OandL hair luxury )


  • What challenges have you faced in the wig business so far?
    🩵 One of the challenges we have encountered so far is with our previous supplier . Her inconsistency and lack of knowledge costed us a lot.


  • Ever had to deal with a tricky client? How did you handle it?
    🩵One lady, for peace sake we had to give her a refund after she made us go miles to get her the hair she wanted .😂😭


  • Quick one—would you rather get your hair done or your nails?
    🩵 They both matter 🤣🤣🤣 so that’s a tricky one but because I have to choose then it would definitely be my hair😀 .
  • What’s your favourite gospel song right now?
    🩵 God of miracles by Mog Music.


  • Which book of the Bible speaks to you the most?
    🩵The book of Mark


  • Samson or Joseph—whose story hits harder for you?
    🩵 Joseph ( His Character narrates of someone who understood his purpose )


  • Apostle Paul or Daniel—who would you invite for coffee and why?
    🩵 Apostle Paul because of his heart to serving God and the people of God .


  • If you could spend one day in the Bible, what scene or moment would you want to witness?
    🩵 Adam and Eve in the garden of Eden 😂


  • How do you keep your faith strong while building your businesses?
    🩵I build my faith through learning from Christian business Guru’s they are my inspiration.


  • What’s one verse that’s carried you through tough times?


“Dear brothers and sisters, when troubles of any kind come your way, consider it an opportunity for great joy. For you know that when your faith is tested, your endurance has a chance to grow.”
‭‭James‬ ‭1‬:‭2‬-‭3‬ ‭NLT‬‬

The Holy Bible

Entrepreneurs, let today’s blog be your reminder — it is possible! Aspiring entrepreneurs , you can start today! You can do all things through Christ who strengthens you.

Want to stay connected with Lilo?

• Follow her on Instagram: Click here

• Shop or follow Zarephath Apparel: Click here

• Order your next wig (or bless your lady!) from O & L Luxury Wigs: Click here

We’d love to hear from you — drop a comment below and let us know how this inspired you!

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The Yielded Believer

Worship Wednesday

PSALM 92

“It’s so enjoyable to come before you with uncontainable praises spilling from our hearts!
How we love to sing our praises over and over to you, to the matchless God, high and exalted over all! At each and every sunrise we will be thanking you for your kindness and your love. As the sun sets and all through the night, we will keep proclaiming, “You are so faithful!

Melodies of praise will fill the air as every musical instrument, joined with every heart, overflows with worship. No wonder I’m so glad; I can’t keep it in! Lord, I’m shouting with glee over all you’ve done, for all you’ve done for me: what mighty miracles and your power at work—just to name a few! Depths of purpose and layers of meaning saturate everything you do. Such amazing mysteries are found within every miracle that nearly everyone seems to miss. Those with no discernment can never really discover the deep and glorious secrets hidden in your ways. It’s true the wicked flourish, but only for a moment; they foolishly forget their destiny with death, that they will all one day be destroyed forevermore. But you, O Lord, are exalted forever in the highest place of endless glory, while your opponents, the workers of wickedness, will all perish, forever separated from you.

Your anointing has made me strong and mighty. You’ve empowered my life for triumph by pouring fresh oil over me. You’ve said that those lying in wait to pounce on me would be defeated, and now it’s happened right in front of my eyes, and I’ve heard their cries of surrender! Yes! Look how you’ve made all your devoted lovers to flourish like palm trees, each one growing in victory, standing with strength! You’ve transplanted them into your heavenly courtyard, where they are thriving before you, for in your presence they will still overflow and be anointed. Even in their old age they will stay fresh, bearing luscious fruit and abiding faithfully. Listen to them! With pleasure they still proclaim: “

You’re so good! You’re my beautiful strength! You’ve never made a mistake with me.”

Take some time to glorify Him!

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The Overcoming Believer

It’s already paid for!

Imagine walking into a store to buy a beautiful dress (ugh, I miss shopping). You find the dress, pay for it, and start walking out, feeling all excited like me when I shop, I’m just ontop of the world. But then, you realise you lost the receipt. The security guy stops you and says, “Let’s go back to the counter to confirm you actually paid.”

You get to the counter, and the cashier looks at you and says, “If you don’t have the receipt, it means you didn’t pay. You’ll have to pay again.” What would be your response? “No way I’ve already paid for it! I’m not paying for it twice.”

It turns into a full-blown scene. The cashier stands her ground, insisting you never paid. The security guard doesn’t believe a word you say. Next thing you know, handcuffs. They drag you back inside, everyone’s staring. You’re being questioned like a criminal. To make things worse, they hand you a broom and a mop, forcing you to clean the store as punishment for “stealing.” Shame and confusion wrap around you like a heavy coat. You keep pleading, “I paid! I paid!” At this point you’re even crying bitterly.

But it’s no use. The cashier either has full-blown amnesia or she’s the devil in human form. She even argues the fact that you used your dad’s card to pay.

Then, in the middle of all that madness, a kind woman approaches you. She frowns and says, “Why are you mopping the floor? You don’t even work here.” You look at her, broken and exhausted, and tell her everything. She pauses, then says, “Wait, have they even scanned the barcode or checked the system?” She grabs the item, gets someone to scan it, and BAAAM! there it is. Proof. Confirmation. The system shows you paid in full.

Suddenly the room shifts. The truth stands taller than all the lies. You were right the whole time. You whisper under your breath, “I told you. It was already paid for.

My Yielded people , That’s exactly what’s happening to many of us. Jesus already paid in full, He settled it all at the cross. Yet, here we are, being told to pay again. Told we’re not going anywhere . Told we’re not free. And because we don’t know how to “check the system,” we’re out here mopping floors in handcuffs, slaves under the enemy’s lies.

The devil, like that cashier, acts like he doesn’t know the truth. He pretends there’s no record. Why? Because he profits from your ignorance. He benefits when you don’t know your rights in Christ. He keeps you working, serving, striving, trying to earn what’s already yours. But here’s the truth: Jesus paid for the dress. It’s yours.

Just because the enemy won’t acknowledge the payment doesn’t mean it wasn’t made. Heaven’s system has a record. The barcode still scans. The blood still speaks. The cross still stands. Believers who don’t know how to access that truth will keep living like prisoners instead of the free sons and daughters they are. You’re not a cleaner in the enemy’s shop, you’re a co-heir in the kingdom of God. It’s already paid for. Walk out of that store. The receipt is written in His blood. You are saved and free to leave the store with whatever you want!

You can’t just say “It’s already paid for” without proof. In the natural, if you lose the receipt, you risk being treated like a thief even if you paid. That’s why stores have systems, scanners, barcodes, and cameras. Proof exists. But unless you know where to look, you’ll suffer unjustly. Now take that into the spiritual. Where is our proof? In the Word of God. That’s our system. That’s where we scan, check, confirm, and present our case.

In the story I shared earlier, if there hadn’t been a system to scan the barcode, you could’ve been sent to jail, punished for something you never did. And guess what? The store owners know they have cameras. They know you paid. But unless someone stands up and demands the truth, they won’t tell you. They’ll let you mop. That’s exactly what the devil is doing today.

He knows what happened at Calvary. He knows the blood was shed. He knows the curse was broken. He was there. But he’s banking on one thing: your ignorance. Because if you don’t know your rights, your receipt, or your spiritual legal standing, you’ll pay again. And right now, many believers are paying again. Paying with their peace. Paying with their health. Paying with their joy, finances, and marriages. Paying even with their entire lives. Labouring under Pharaoh because they don’t know they’ve already been set free. But I refuse to pay again.

If the Son sets you free, you are free indeed” (John 8:36).

So why am I not allowed to leave the store with my bag of goodies? Because the realm of the spirit is legalistic. It doesn’t respond to emotions and tears, it responds to evidence. They want receipts. So today, I present mine: The blood of Jesus Christ. And according to Revelation 12:11:

“And they overcame him by the blood of the Lamb, and by the word of their testimony…”

That’s how we win. The blood + the Word = the receipt. So I ask again: How is an overcomer still mopping floors?

Selah.