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Special Edition Thursday with Ms Lilly Nashe

Kudiwanashe Lilian Mutambirwa, also known as Lilly Nashe, is a born-again believer who has dedicated her life to spreading the message of God’s love and transformation. A marketing manager by profession, she is also a Christian influencer and motivational speaker. Her ministry focuses on empowering the youth, young adults, and women.

With over seven years of experience as a motivational speaker, Lilian has had the privilege of addressing diverse audiences at schools, corporate events, churches, and children’s camps, where she serves as a camp counsellor .
Her messages are anchored under the belief of Romans 12:2, that after an encounter of Jesus Christ, true transformation begins with a renewed mind. Lilian’s future aspiration is to become an author, with a focus on books that explore Christian life and marriage. Her proposed works aim to navigate themes relevant to believers, such as single life, waiting on God’s promises, and standing firm in faith, as encouraged in Jude 1:3. Through her endeavors, she shares her personal testimony—a story of transformation through God’s love. This experience has become the cornerstone of her purpose: to introduce people to the love of God and her urgent message about the soon-coming King.

• What is a fun factor about you that most people don’t know?
🩷 A fun fact about me is that

I love to bake, primarily because I have a sweet tooth and find baking therapeutic

I get a massive dose of dopamine just seeing a cake or savoury treat come out perfectly.


You are stuck in a place with 3 people, who would you rather be stuck with?
🩷 I would love to say my husband, my husband and my husband, but since he’s not here yet, I’ll list three amazing women: my sister Star and my two best friends, Thato and Njabulo. I think we’d have a very bearable experience. Star and Thato would cook for us, with Njabulo leading us in prayer, and I would be there for the vibes.

Would you rather swim or ride a horse?
🩷 RIDE A HORSE! Another bonus fact about me is that I love horses, I almost did professional horse riding two years ago. 

Create a short poem titled “The day l got saved.”
🩷 The day I got saved…

I was in the middle of a forest, surrounded by young voices crying, singing, and praising. I heard the call, “If you want to give your life to Christ, raise your hand and invite Him in,” and so my hand was raised. With a face full of tears, a running nose, and a racing heart, I invited Him in. Moments later, I was led to a riverbed; there I publicly professed my faith as a bold 12-year-old girl. I was at peace. But years later, things changed. No, I changed. No longer was I a child; I now reasoned differently. The reality of life and its struggles, passions, and desires roared loudly. My home was no longer the same; pain, blood, and anger were frequent visitors. But I tried to soldier on until I couldn’t. The joy of the world enticed me, and with no one to report back to, I answered that call. For twelve months, I found a lodging place in the heart of my desires. Never truly feeling convicted, because I’m not that bad, right? It’s just one occasional drink, accompanied by an occasional puff of flavoured air, as I lay in the arms of a lover I knew my God did not know. The only thing I couldn’t do was ignore the reality of my consequences, the wages of sin and my guaranteed destination. And so there I was, again. With a face full of tears, nose running, and a heart racing, this time alone in my room on a random afternoon. I wept because no longer did I know what peace felt like; I hadn’t felt conviction in months, so I wept, “Help me, please Lord, help me,” and He answered me…

The day I got saved, I was so broken; my heart was heavy, and my life had no direction. According to the flesh, I had no reason to leave the world, but God knew my destiny—the calling over my life was greater than any pleasure this world could offer. The day I gave my life to Christ, the love a good man gave me was no longer good, because how can something good lead you to a guaranteed death? The day I gave my life to God, I encountered Love, true love. A love so real it died on the cross for everything I had done; a blood so powerful it broke every stronghold the enemy had over my family; a Love so kind it removed every feeling of condemnation within me. God’s love changed my life and rewrote my story. The day I got saved, all of heaven rejoiced, and now I rejoice daily, because Love changed my life the day I got saved.

Tell us a bit about your background and how you began ministry?
🩷 I grew up in a Christian home. My father was an elder at church, my mum was a Sunday school teacher, and when my sister got older, she also became a Sunday school teacher. I grew up surrounded by love and always had deep gratitude for my community, teachers at school and church, youth leaders, and friends. My father was the first to recognize the gift in me, and my parents encouraged me to pursue public speaking by trying classes like Toastmasters and general high school groups. At age 12, I gave my life to Christ at a youth camp. At age 17, I remember the Holy Spirit prompting me to share a message with my peers. Before I even knew what that message was, I spoke to my principal, and she said she’d consider my request. One Friday afternoon, she called me into her office, saying their motivational speaker for the grade 11s had canceled and asked if I was still interested in sharing a word. With much excitement and humility, I agreed. That Monday morning, with all the grade 11s gathered in the auditorium, I shared a word on forgiveness, and truly the rest was history. My principal would call on me to speak at parents’ evenings, different schools, and children’s homes. I began volunteer work as a camp counselor for children’s camps, leading their praise and worship. My journey into ministry felt very natural. I read many stories, even in the Bible, of people who didn’t initially want to preach, but honestly, I was happy from the beginning. I now think this is because of my purpose: I am called to introduce God’s love to people. God’s love changed my life. His word now molds and purifies me daily. His love transforms me, and with that knowledge, I share His word and my testimonies, knowing that it is Christ who now speaks through me. His love and Spirit are at work in the hearts of those receiving this message that the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand.

• Who are the spiritual mentors or voices that have influenced you most?
🩷 My dad is definitely the first. I thank God for growing up in a home where Bible study was frequent, and attending church was not optional. My dad’s gift of wisdom in how he reads and understands God’s word inspired me. He raised us to be bold and audacious young women who challenge what challenges our beliefs of truth. He held me and still holds me accountable. Second would be my youth leader, Brother Mashudu Mbedzi, an apostle at heart. It was under his leadership that I gave my life to God. He has a deep love for the youth, and his core mandate is to cultivate environments for young people to experience Jesus. Over the years, he has been the person I call with every idea, new venture, challenge, and future aspiration. Lastly, my mother has had a profound influence on my life, grounded in prayer. Her prophetic view of the gospel is one I have embraced from an early age. Her love and guidance have molded me into the confident young lady I am today.

As a young woman in ministry, what challenges have you faced and how have you overcome them?
🩷 Respect. I am a black, single woman, and each of these aspects presents its own challenges. I thank God my father set the tone from a very young age that we should carry ourselves boldly and demand respect or simply walk away. I have encountered men who believe all women should submit to them as unto the Lord, but fortunately for me, that principle only applies to my husband. Therefore, I choose to love and respect men and women as the siblings we are, and nothing more. Submission plays a significant role in my life. I grew up with traditional parents under biblical doctrine, so I understand my place as a daughter, sister, friend, student, and servant under greater authority. Yes, I have faced many encounters where being a young, single black woman caused me to feel disrespected. However, I am not without help; God fights every battle for me. As 2 Timothy 1:7 says, I do not have a spirit of fear but one of power, love, and a sound mind. Every challenge faced is dealt with by the power within.


• How do you handle moments of burnout or discouragement?
🩷 l face these challenges often, but in those moments, I ask for help. I am not without help. I remind myself of this as a declaration when I feel alone, stuck, and demotivated. I call my friends and ask for prayer, then I pray. There have been many times when I wasn’t in the mood to go anywhere or be around anyone, but in those moments, I remember Jeremiah 33:3 and ask God to answer my cry and give me what I need to make it through. Sometimes I remind myself that being a slave may take away my comfort, so whether or not I’m discouraged, if God has called me to it, I have to see it through despite how my flesh feels. It’s not to say it’s easy, but that’s the reality of serving God, who is also Lord over my life. So yes, a bit of tough love and prayer always does the trick.

• What message do you hope young people take away from your ministry and content?
🩷 From my content, I hope people are freed from the shackles of pleasing anyone other than God. It’s okay to have a personality and love God, it’s okay to be happy, and it’s okay to enjoy this beautiful world God created. I can only hope and pray that through the ministry God calls me to, people see the tangible love of God at work in my life and testimonies and experience it for themselves. I also hope people laugh because even He who sits in heaven laughs.

How do you stay spiritually grounded while navigating the demands of ministry and social media?
🩷 Discipline and discipleship. Ensuring that the life I present online is a true reflection of what happens offscreen. Being in God’s presence every day through prayer, Bible reading, cell groups, and any other way I can. It’s so easy to burn out, but it’s easier to keep the lamp burning when you do the work to maintain the oil for the lamp.


• Which woman in the Bible do you most identify with, and why?
🩷 The answer to this question changes for me due to the different seasons of my life, but for now, I would confidently say Deborah. I see the grace for counselling that she had within my own life, as well as my deep love for worship and song.

List 3 gospel songs that you totally love!!
🩷 7 Hills worship – Found a love. Joyous choir x Shingisai Suluma Tidzidzisei kunamata. Phil Thompson x Victor Thompson Jesus, Lamb of God.

• Have you always known you were/are
funny or did you discover it through people?

🩷 l think I’ve known from birth. I’ve always had a goofy personality, with my parents reminding me of all the silly jokes and pranks I would play on them. Later, during my school years, my love for laughter and not taking myself too seriously shone through because of the amazing friends I had.

What’s one Bible character you think would make a great comedian?
🩷 Peter. I just imagine he had a witty sense of humor that isn’t intentional. He appears to be impulsive, much like I am, so I understand that with this personality trait, we’re quick to speak first and think later.


• If you weren’t doing ministry or comedy, what would you be doing?
🩷 Theatre for sure! I love acting, both on screen and on stage. I did theatre in high school, and I loved it. Being on stage, speaking loudly, and singing in between are my favorite things to do. It’s a dream I won’t let go of.


• What inspires your skits and comedic content?
🩷 I usually find funny sounds and think about how I want to act them out. Other times, it’s pure impulse; I act first and process later.

• Who are some international and local
creators you’d love to collaborate with?

🩷 Internationally, Megan Ashley is at the top of my list. Jackie Hill Perry and Pastor Stephanie Ike Okafor are also notable, and I would have loved to work with Dr. Myles Munroe. Locally, Oboitshepo Tladi  (my mum, sister, and I are major beneficiaries of her ministry; we have enough testimonies to write a book). Casper Nyovest has been on my heart for many months now, and I would be honored to have a podcast interview with him. There are many others, but I thank God that last year I had the honour of doing Instagram Lives with most of the people I once aspired to work with.

• Do you have a role model? How do they inspire you?

l don’t have a role model other than Jesus.

The life of Christ is my reference point for everything I face. I admire many people and find their lives beautiful, but my only true role model has always been Jesus Christ.

• What do you think is very important for Christian Content Creators to know?
🩷 Social media is a part of a ministry platform, so we’re accountable for what we share, say, engage in, and do in the public eye. People are always watching. That’s not to say we should be fake or put on a persona and only engage in spiritual content, but being yourself allows people to see the light of God at work in you. I love what the Christian community is today; we’re not perfect, but we love God and each other. It melts my heart to see how close most of us really are because the love we share will inevitably be seen by others, and their curiosity about that light will lead them to the cross.

• Would you do a soccer or a painting competition?
🩷 Soccer. I love sports, I love being active so I would much rather do something physical.  I’m not good at soccer—I don’t even think I know how to kick straight—I’m a netball girl, but I love participating.


• What is your home language?
🩷 Shona. I am Shona, with Ndebele heritage.


Complete this sentence, “If you could see through my tummy, you’d probably find…
🩷  If you could see through my tummy you’d probably find  rivers of living water! Just kidding, if you could see through my tummy you’d probably find it empty because I’m always hungry.


• What piece of advice would you like to leave with our readers today?
🩷 God loves you; He never stopped loving you. I went through a season where I almost forgot that truth. Pain tried to push me away from God, but because of His love, He rescued me again and held me in His warm embrace. It’s okay to hurt as long as you remain in Him. Cry in His arms. God’s love brings so much joy. Regardless of what we seek to gain from God, the greatest gift will always be Him—just Jesus. We are not without help; we have a Comforter, Healer, Father, Lord, and Friend. How exciting is it that the King of Kings, there before the beginning of time, would love us so much that He died to save us? What manner of love is it that the Lord of Lords knows your name and solely wants you—your yes, your heart, and your life? Just you and the Savior for all eternity 

Please feel free to connect with me on my social media pages:

Instagram- @lilly_nashe._

Tiktok: @lillynashe 

Or send an email to:

Lillynashe16@gmail.com

A lot of what I want to do is still under construction and prayer, but I urge you to stay connected. My first book, podcast and Youtube channel relaunch are just some exciting things I hope to share with you all very very soon. I love you!

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Worship Wednesday

It’s WORSHIP WEDNESDAY BREDREEEEEN!

Hey everyone!

I’m so excited to share that this weekend, I’ll be launching my book “A Thing Called Time” and you’re invited to celebrate with me online via Zoom! 🎉

This isn’t my first book, but it’s the first published one so I’d love for you to , my wonderful readers, to be part of this joyful moment. It’s a free event, open to everyone, so feel free to invite your friends. Let’s come together and praise the Lord for the great things He has done! It’ll be a relaxed evening, so grab your coffee, get comfy, and join us from wherever you are. All the Zoom details are below. And yes all info on how to get your copy of the book will be shared at the event.

I recently watched a film that I believe every Christian should too. It’s powerful, insightful, and very timely. I’ve linked it just below please check it out when you get the chance.

For your praise and worship time today, here are two song suggestions I’ve been loving links are included as well!


If you have any questions about the book launch, feel free to drop a comment, send a DM, or reach out via email. Hope to see you there!

I love you.❤️

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The apology you’ve been waiting for

Imagine this.

The person who hurt you the most… finally says, “I’m sorry.”

Not defensively. Not to clear their conscience. But truly genuinely sorry. They admit to the lies. The slander. The gossip. The abuse. All of it. They don’t deny it. They don’t gaslight you with “I didn’t do that.” Instead, they look you in the eye and say, “I was wrong. I hurt you. I shouldn’t have done that.”

How would that make you feel? To be acknowledged. To be believed. To be validated in your pain. To finally hear the words that your heart waited so long for. Would it break you? Heal you ?Free you? Or maybe… a bit of all three. I guess that’s what so many of us are waiting for, to finally begin healing. To get the closure we never received. To close that chapter. To feel like we can start living again. We’re waiting for someone to say, “I’m sorry.” Waiting for someone to own what they did, to acknowledge the pain they caused, so we can finally exhale and let go.

And in some ways, we’re not wrong for wanting that. Because when there’s no apology, the wound doesn’t fully close. It lingers. It stings. It stays open in quiet, subtle ways. And I always tell people, no one gets to decide whether they hurt someone or not. The person who was hurt gets to name that pain. Because at the end of the day, we can’t fully know how someone else feels. We’re not in their body. We only know our own.

So maybe that’s what we’re all really waiting for: an apology. A real one. But here’s the hard part how long have you been waiting? Some people have waited ten years. Some have waited their whole lives. Some never got it, not even on a deathbed. Especially in some of our homes, where “I’m sorry” is treated like weakness or something unfamiliar. In many African households, apologies can feel like foreign language.

And so, some people will wait forever. And they’ll never hear those words. So the question becomes: what do you want to do with that reality? The 50/50 chance. The gray area. Do you wait? Do you confront? Do you release it for your own peace, even if they never say sorry? This is where healing becomes a choice. Not easy. Not clean. But yours to make.

I want you to ask yourself something real today: Would you still choose to forgive if the apology never came? Yesterday, we spoke about forgiving ourselves. We reflected on what it means to look in the mirror and say, “I’m sorry Vanessa, for the things I put you through.” And that’s hard but in many ways, it’s easier than what we’re about to face today.

What about when the pain comes from someone else? What happens when the person who hurt you never says, “I’m sorry”? Are you willing to wait? And how long are you willing to wait?For some, the apology might still come. Maybe in two more years. Two months. Two days. Even in two hours your phone could ring, a message could appear, and they finally say the words you’ve longed to hear. But for others… the apology may never come.

And if that’s you, then the question becomes not if they’ll say sorry, but what will you do if they don’t?. This is where the Word reminds us: “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” (Proverbs 4:23) Guarding your heart isn’t about building walls.

It’s about making room for God to heal what others damaged.

It’s about choosing not to let bitterness take root and rule your life. It’s about deciding through God’s strength to forgive even when it wasn’t asked for. Let me be clear , I am not downplaying the pain. I am not dismissing the weight of what you’ve been through. I know it made you cry. I know it made you question your worth. I know it was heavy and unfair and you didn’t deserve it. But I also have to ask will you stay on this mountain forever?

Because the Bible says, “You have stayed long enough at this mountain.” (Deuteronomy 1:6)

How long have you been feeling that way? And how has it helped you? Maybe today isn’t about getting an apology. Maybe today is about letting God do what that person never could, heal you, validate you, restore you. We will look at steps to forgiveness as we build on this topic but please,

Consider what l said. ❤️

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I forgive you

I know these words aren’t easy to say. For many of us, simply reaching the point where we can say “I forgive you” is a struggle. And the reason is understandable the weight of what we’ve endured because of others can feel unbearable. Our experiences are not the same, our responses differ, and our hearts process pain in unique ways. But if there’s one thing we can all agree on, it’s this: forgiveness is not easy but it’s also not optional.

Someone is angry and bitter because they were raped. A man is broken because his wife betrayed him. A woman carries deep resentment because her husband abused her. Children cannot bring themselves to forgive their parents and parents, in turn, struggle to forgive their children.

Unforgiveness has crept into the workplace colleagues turned against each other. Among siblings, grudges grow silently over the years. In friendships, it disguises itself hidden behind smiles and small talk, but waiting patiently for a day of expression . Even among brethren in the church , who pray the Lord’s Prayer, asking, “Forgive us as we forgive those who trespass against us,” there remains a list at least five names they’ve never truly released in that very department. And perhaps the heaviest of all is the unforgiveness we carry against ourselves.

Sometimes, we do receive apologies. People kneel, they cry, and they express deep sorrow for what they’ve done. And yet, some say the apology isn’t sincere. Others respond with anger, turning the moment into another argument, another war. It makes me wonder why Jesus emphasised the number of times we are to forgive. Perhaps He knew that in this life, offences would come not just once, but over and over again. And maybe that’s exactly why forgiveness, too, must come over and over again.

Today, I want to ask you, have you forgiven yourself?

Have you forgiven yourself for misjudging that guy, for pouring your heart and resources into someone who made you feel like a fool? What about that sin that still lingers in your mind, always before you?

Have you forgiven yourself for the moment you dropped your guard for a few minutes of pleasure that came at the cost of your consecration? Have you forgiven yourself for the things you didn’t do, the words you should have spoken, the decisions you delayed, the red flags and exit doors you ignored?

Forgive yourself for not walking away sooner. For taking a path that ended in pain, even in trauma like rape. For staying silent when you needed to speak. For the years that feel wasted. You need to forgive yourself. And you need to do it now. Not tomorrow. Not someday. Now.For some, forgiving others feels impossible because you’ve never started with yourself.

You’re still beating yourself up over a past that Jesus already washed clean with His blood. You can’t forgive yourself for not hugging your parent more before they passed. Maybe you told a lie. Maybe it’s the baby daddy. Maybe you made a decision that changed your life for the worse. But the question is: until when?

How long will you carry that burden?How long will your shoulders bear what grace already came to lift? It’s time to give rest to those tired shoulders. Look in the mirror. Call yourself by name. And say:

“[Your Name], I forgive you. I forgive you for everything. I forgive you seventy times seven times. I forgive you because God has already forgiven you. I forgive you because you deserve to spread your wings and fly. I forgive you because you can only soar high when you’re carrying light.”

And I hope it’s not just words. I hope you finally allow yourself to come out of that cage. ❤️

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Reflection Friday

How are you really doing? How has your week been?How’s your heart, your body, your mind? What’s been weighing on your thoughts lately? Whatever it is, why not place it in God’s hands today? He cares for you more than you know.

This morning, while reflecting on my life, I said to God, “Lord, I’m content… but I’m not satisfied.” Then I paused and thought, Wait, what did I just say? Lol.

I am content I rarely complain. I’m not a murmurer. I don’t naturally lean toward the negative. I’m intentional about guarding my faith and peace by not fixating on things that cause me to stagger in unbelief. It’s giving Abraham, you know? Fully persuaded. Lol. But I also like to reflect deeply. So I evaluated my life, my career, my gifts, my skills, the effort and energy I put into what I do. And still, the thought echoed back: Content, but not satisfied. Grateful, yet certain there’s more.

There’s more to reach for. More to become. So… where is the “more” button? Make l prezz it immediately, please! I’m not gonna throw any tantrum, I just want instructions to get to my more season. Practical steps too , you know.

“If you work hard at what you do, great abundance will come to you. But merely talking about getting rich while living to only pursue your pleasures brings you face-to-face with poverty.”
‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭14‬:‭23‬ ‭TPT‬‬

If you’re anything like me, then you know that stepping into your “more” starts with intentional decisions. I’m about to share a post with you, and I truly hope you’ll show up for this event not for me, but for you. Help yourself… unless you’re completely content with where you are. Sometimes the difference between where you are and where you’re called to be is just knowledge. One word. One insight. One moment of clarity.

Show up. Learn. Invest in yourself. Who knows, your “more” might just be waiting in this very meeting.