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Worship Wednesday

It’s Worship Wednesday! Are you excited?

I love Worship Wednesdays because all I have to do is share my playlist with you , no long writing, just pure worship. This day is special because it’s about connecting with God personally, according to our hunger and desire for Him.

Many people struggle to worship outside of “group worship” whether in church or with friends. But when we’re alone, cultivating a life of worship can be challenging. This struggle affects our relationship with God because worship is one of the ways we truly come to know Him. Do you find yourself bored during worship but excited when it’s time to pray? If so, there’s something off in your walk with God. Worship isn’t just a moment; it’s a lifestyle.

How do you start?

You start by asking the Holy Spirit to teach you how to worship. Worship isn’t just about singing, it’s about surrender, intimacy, and a heart that seeks God. I am a music minister, and although I’ve been singing for many years, every time I’m about to minister, I always pray, “Holy Spirit, teach me how to sing.” I do this every single time because no matter how much experience I have, I recognize that true worship comes from Him.

What we cannot do, or what we lack the capacity to do at its very best, we must always ask for help. Here are some worship songs to help you draw closer to God today. See you tomorrow for our Special Edition Thursday!

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The Yielded Believer

A foolish companion

When I was growing up, I believed that God was responsible for everything that happened both good and bad. If I had hiccups or sneezed a lot, I thought it was because I had lied or done something wrong, and God was punishing me. Even when I fell or bruised myself, I assumed it was His way of reminding me of unconfessed sins. I was just a child, shame! Now that I’m older, I realise that many of the challenges we face aren’t necessarily tied to God’s will but are often the result of our own choices, preferences, and decisions.

As we learned yesterday, the choice is ours to make God has given us free will. The people in your life, your spouse, even the way you dress; these are all choices you’ve made. I’ve made my fair share of bad choices, and I had to face the consequences. That’s the thing about decisions, every choice comes with a consequence. The Bible tells us about a man named Nabal, whose very name means “fool.” But guess what? He was married to a beautiful wise woman called Abigail. When Nabal rudely turned away David’s messengers, he angered David and put his entire household in danger. David was prepared to wipe them all out. But then, the Bible tells us that Abigail quickly got on her donkey and hurried to meet David, seeking to make peace.

“She fell at his feet and said, “I accept all blame in this matter, my Lord. Please listen to what I have to say. I know Nabal is a wicked and ill-tempered man; please don’t pay any attention to him. He is a fool, just as his name suggests. But I never even saw the young men you sent.”
‭‭1 Samuel‬ ‭25‬:‭24‬-‭25‬ ‭NLT‬‬

A wise and sensible woman married a fool; just let that sink in. When I first read this, I thought, “Wow! So even wise people make mistakes?” And then I remembered Solomon… case closed! Even the wisdom of men has its flaws.

You might be thinking, “How could Abigail marry a man like that?” But be honest how many times have you found yourself in relationships, business partnerships, or friendships with fools? Apostle Joshua Selman puts it best: “If you count five fools around you, you did not count well!” Now, imagine if Abigail hadn’t stepped in she would have perished, all because of her connection to a fool. Moral of the story? You’re never safe around fools!!

Fools are a special breed, they make impulsive decisions, speak recklessly, and act without considering the consequences or who will be affected. They just do things anyhow. But here’s the funny part: fools still get opportunities! They get the jobs, the marriages, some even become parents! The problem isn’t getting things; it’s keeping them. Their foolishness eventually ruins what they once had.

Now, let’s talk about Abigail. This beautiful, sensible woman looked at Nabal and said, “I do!” A whole Abigail married a whole fool. And not just any fool; one so certified that even his wife called him that!I can’t help but wonder, how many fires did Abigail have to put out because of her husband? How many apologies did she have to make on his behalf? How many times did she rush to clean up the mess he created? Because when you’re surrounded by fools, guess who gets stuck doing damage control? You! And let me tell you, that life is exhausting!

Everyone makes foolish decisions now and then, it happens. But there’s a big difference between making a foolish decision and being a fool. Don’t be that friend. You know, the one no one asks for advice because they already know whatever comes out of your mouth will make zero sense. Refuse to be the Nabal of your circle! Ask God for wisdom, so you don’t become anyone’s cautionary tale. The book of Proverbs has so much to say about fools that sometimes, when you’re reading it, you start wondering, “Wait… is Solomon talking about me?”

But here’s a question, when you look at your life, how many of the people around you are wise? How many give you sound advice? How many can actually be trusted? And most importantly, how many truly believe in God? Because according to the Bible, the first qualification for being a fool is not believing that God exists. So, before worrying about fools around you, make sure you’re not the one Solomon’s been warning us about!

“A wicked fool says to himself, “There is no God.” Fools are evil. They do terrible things. None of them does anything good.”
‭‭Psalms‬ ‭14‬:‭1‬ ‭ICB‬‬

Wisdom is profitable. 🌸

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A suitable companion

I know you rushed here because of the topic 😂 ehh Susan and Emmanuel, you like these kinds of things! If I just type the angelic something something you’ll ignore LOL. Anyhoo, happy Monday my beloveds! Happy new week. I pray that the Lord shows up for you before the end of the month! Hold onto your faith and you’ll see the wonders of the Lord!

In the account of creation, God created Adam first and placed him in Eden , a place of assignment. Before Adam was even formed, God had already prepared a purpose for him: to tend and keep the garden. This shows that God is a God of assignments. He never creates without purpose. Before He forms anyone, He ordains their destiny. As He declares in Jeremiah 1:5

“Before I formed you in the womb I knew you; Before you were born I sanctified you; l ordained you a prophet to the nations.”

Guess what? Even the madman you see has a purpose. Take the man from the Gadarenes, for example the one who lived among the tombs. After his deliverance, he became a messenger, traveling to ten cities to testify about what Jesus had done for him. Imagine that such great capacity, once wasted in isolation and torment. Back to Adam. He wakes up and tends the garden, fulfilling his assignment. In the cool of the day, he meets with the Lord in fellowship. At night, he enjoys a good meal and rests. His life is whole, no complaints, no depression, no cries of loneliness. Not once does he say, “I can’t tend the garden , I’m too lonely.” Everything is in order, just as God intended.

Then God saw that Adam needed a companion. You see, God knows what you need better than you do. Adam may have thought he was fine; playing with the cows, drinking milk but God saw that nothing He had created could truly be a suitable companion for him. Listen, you can buy nine cats, but they still won’t be a suitable companion. You can teach a parrot to talk, but it won’t be a suitable companion. You can get four pit bulls and a chihuahua, yet they won’t fill that space. And all your gadgets, your phone, your laptop, even if it’s from Apple and it’s the latest, your endless scrolling they’re not a suitable companion either.

God designed humans to thrive in the company of other humans those who are suitable for their lives and their Eden. What does suitable mean? Because some of you seem confused. It means compatible, well-matched, complementary, or designed to fit well. And let me tell you for free most of the people we “jell” with are not actually designed to fit well in our lives. Many of us are forcing connections, pairing owls with eagles, and wondering why things aren’t working.

This is why you must know your Eden. When you understand where God has placed you, you’ll also recognize who is well-matched for your life. News flash: you are not a perfect match for everything and everyone. You have a specific tribe people who are complementary to you according to your God-given purpose.Yes, this even applies to the spouse you’re waiting for. You don’t choose based on good english. English can be taught. But tell me, how do you teach an eagle to swim?

Genesis 2:22 (NKJV):

“Then the rib which the Lord God had taken from man He made into a woman, and He brought her to the man.”

God never said to Adam, “Here’s your wife.” He simply presented Eve to him, bringing her to him. For those of you who have many strange dreams claiming God said someone is your “bone of your bones,” I’ll tell you straight, you’re lying. God presents people, but we make the choice.

Only God knew that Eve was made from Adam’s bones. Adam was asleep when Eve was created, but being spiritually connected, Adam immediately recognized her with complete clarity. I’m telling you, someone who isn’t plugged into the Spirit will never truly recognise you; no matter how much you try to stand out, no matter what you wear. This goes for both men and women. The suitable people are out there. God still presents them, but the choice is ours to make. You choose your suitable. You choose who to befriend. You choose who to do business with. You choose who you marry. You!

Why is this issue so important? Because your destiny depends on it. Have you ever met someone who made a good choice in their companions? I have. They bear fruit, they flourish, they grow. Why? Because the people around them don’t try to steal their Eden. Your suitable companions will give you wise advice for your destiny.

Let me also say, your suitable companions should choose you too. It can’t be one-sided. Eve didn’t say, “Ah, Lord, I don’t like him.” She chose him too! Man has always been given the power of choice, and Eve chose Adam. So best believe, she made a choice as well. You can’t force people to be your friends. You can’t force them to love you or marry you. It must be a reciprocal relationship. Adam chose Eve. Eve chose Adam. If someone doesn’t want you as their friend, lover or business partner, even if they are suitable, leave them alone. Read that again.

We may think the relationships around us aren’t that important, but they truly are. Consider the relationship Naomi had with her daughters-in-law, the friendship bond between David and Jonathan, the tragic sibling story of Cain and Abel, the controlling evil union of Jezebel and Ahab, the marriage of Abigail and Nabal, or the mentor-mentee relationship between Elijah and Elisha. And even you and that person in your life all these relationships matter deeply.

When you understand this, you’ll know how to choose your companions wisely. God will present them to you, but ultimately, you will make the choice. So, be in your Eden, tend to it carefully. Don’t worry about many things. God knows exactly what you need, when the right person should come, and where they are. Whether it’s a friend, a business partner, or even a spouse, tend to your Eden and enjoy true fellowship with God While you serve and nurture your purpose, a day of presentation will come. And by the Spirit of God, I pray you choose wisely.

Have a great day! See you tomorrow! 🌸

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Reflection Friday

i LOVE YOU.

I actually woke up thinking it was Saturday does that ever happen to you? When a day just feels like another day? LOL. I’m feeling a bit under the weather, but like Elijah, I’m shifting things through prayer! How was your week? How are you? And most importantly how’s your heart?

This week, my spiritual father was teaching about extra oil, and it really got me thinking. I finished the week without completing a single lesson or assignment from school. If I could change one thing, it would definitely be how I managed my time. So next week, I have to do things differently. What about you? If you could change something about this week, what would it be?

I get to talk to so many people about the state of their minds and hearts, and one thing I’ve noticed is that a lot of people believe time will fix everything. You’ve probably heard the saying, “Time heals.” Well… I hate to break it to you, but that’s not exactly true. Time heals nobody. Time itself doesn’t change things but things change with time!

Time keeps moving, but the real question is: Are you moving with it?

I actually wrote a book about time (if you know how I can publish it online, let me know!). While studying this topic, I realised that if you don’t address something now, you’ll have to deal with it later. It’s really in your hands.

That’s why I encourage people to come for counselling not because I need clients, but because I know that avoiding things doesn’t make them disappear. It just means they’re hanging onto you like a tick. And trust me, it’s better to deal with it before it starts messing things up! This is what time does in most cases

Some of us are already at stage 3 and still think we’re fine when in reality, we’re just pushing through. Counseling isn’t just for depression; it helps break cycles of emotional ups and downs.

Think of counseling as a place where you give yourself a break. A space to pause, breathe, and reset. It’s not about fixing everything all at once. It’s about clarifying things, untangling frustrations, and creating better ways to handle what you’ve been struggling with.

Book a session, and remember—it’s pay what you can. Your peace of mind is worth it!

And oh I’ve got something little for you;

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Special Edition Thursday with Ps Alice Halidu

Meet Pastor Mrs Alice Halidu

Pastor Alice Halidu was born in Nigeria. She gave her life to Christ at the age of 13 . As the firstborn in a family of six, she was raised by hardworking, illiterate parents who were farmers. Her father, a former military man, retired to focus on farming before his passing, leaving behind her mother, who is still alive today.
She pursued higher education at the University of Jos in Nigeria, where she earned a degree in Language and Linguistics. She later married Pastor Abraham Halidu, a medical doctor, and together they serve as senior pastors at Revival House Church in Lokoja. The Lord blessed them with four children. She is also the convener of the morning glory prayer network and her ministry has impacted countless lives across different nations and cultures.


  • If you could have dinner with any biblical figure, who would it be?
    🌼 I’d like to have a talk with the wisest and richest man that ever lived, KING SOLOMON!

  • What’s one item you always carry in your handbag, no matter where you go?
    🌼 Let me cheeeeeck now ! My purse!

  • Tea or coffee? 
    🌼 Coffee

  • Lip gloss or lipstick? 
    🌼 Lipgloss

  • Earrings or handbag? 
    🌼 Earrings


  • What are the 3 core values your parents taught you?
    🌼 1. The first one is , God at the Centre of everything. If things are to work then God MUST be the at the centre of everything.

    🌼 2. PRAYER. It should be at the centre of every man’s life. I learnt my prayer life from my mother. She is a great woman of prayer.

    🌼 3. Total dependency on God for everything. My mom just told me a few days ago

My daughter if you hear that l passed on, don’t come looking for who killed me because nobody can. I passed away because it’s my time and my turn.

  • What are the 2 lessons you have learnt from your marital journey ?
    🌼 Okay, lesson number one

🌼Cont: So when you’re leaving say “Patience where are you? Come and enter this box!” The challenge with this generation is that they leave patience behind and they carry the love and butterflies but by the time reality stares you in the face since you left patience in your father’s house, you’ll carry your bags and move back there. So carry patience, then you can open your box and say, Oya, come out now it’s your time!” 😂

🌼 2. Don’t allow anything to tamper with your PERSONAL and connection to God. Your personal relationship, your contact with God should never be tampered with.

  • What drives your passion to keep serving God and the community?
    🌼 My Love for God. Passion dies when there’s no love. Genuine love for God will make you do ANYTHING for Kingdom. It will help your passion to find expression. That you will not only do ministry for ministry sake, or singing in the choir for the sake of singing but you just love God there’s no extent to which you cannot go.This is what is lacking today. People have gifts, talents and graces but if genuine love for God is not there, whatever you’re doing can become fake. Genuine love for God makes you serve Him whether it’s rainy or sunny, with and without the material things so it becomes like this:

    “I go to church because l love God. I sing because I love God. I do evangelism because I love God. I refuse to quarrel with my husband because I love God. I don’t want to do anything to grieve Him. My consciousness of the love l have for God makes me refuse to insult the person that just insulted me. I just love God!”
  • As a spiritual mother to many, what do you think is an important lesson for young ladies?
    🌼 The Bible says the older women should teach the younger ones. I think the young ladies should have a teachable heart. I know you guys know more than us with technology and digital things but the wisdom of the old and the dynamics of the younger ones combined will make us an unbeatable force.
  • How has your relationship with God changed from the time you were single into marriage?
    🌼 I loved God since I was young and so I’ve told my husband that l was on my way to heaven before l met him and I’m not planning to change my mind. A lot of times many of the things you knew will be tested, from patience, endurance to your love for God. You have to grow. Your heart will be stretched and your capacity must increase.
    I just increased capacity.
  • Reflecting on your journey , is there a moment that made you think ,”Only God made this possible!”
    🌼 Oh l always talk about this. It was when my father passed on. As the first of six siblings, I don’t know if it’s like that in South Africa but in Nigeria burials are a big deal especially for the first child. You are the one carrying the whole load. My fear was how my father was going to be buried, the burial expenses. I remember that day I went to church and l pleaded with the praise and worship leader to allow me lead praise just for some few minutes . That praise l led that day was between me and God, that’s when l knew that praise is really a weapon. People didn’t know that my father had just passed on. I gave God all the glory and l led people to dance. I myself danced until l started wiping the floor with my body. One prayer request l had was, “Lord bury my father for me. Don’t put me to shame. Don’t let them ask me where is my God.” And Vanessa God did wonders for me. People came from all over, even people that l didn’t expect. My father was buried like a king. I came back and returned the glory to the same God who buried my father for me. God showed up for me. Praise became a practical weapon in my life. That’s an incident in my life I will never forget. There are many testimonies that l know that this one is just God, things you can’t deny even if they put a knife on your throat, you know that this one was done by God . Just like the disciples said

“That which was from the beginning, which we have heard, which we have seen with our eyes, which we have looked upon, and our hands have handled, concerning the Word of life—”
‭‭I John‬ ‭1‬:‭1‬ ‭NKJV‬‬

  • What are the challenges you’ve faced as an overseer of a church?
    🌼 One of the challenges is trying to do it by myself forgetting that Jesus Christ said that He will build HIS church. Another thing is trying to fix everybody and trying to make everybody fall in line. I wanted everybody to be this and that but it’s exhausting but I realised that all l can do is preach and pray and allow Holy Spirit to do His part.

  • Who are the 3 people that you look up to?
    🌼 Well, God because He is the Author and Finisher of my faith. I look up to the fathers in the faith. People like Papa EA Adeboye of the Redeemed Christian Church of God. He’s 83 and he’s still fervent in his service to God. I listened to him live and I was wondering what is his driving force and motivation even at this age. He’s still passionate about serving God. I want to be like him. I look up to his wife, Mama Folu Adeboye. Her passion for missions! She does ministry to the body of Christ and has the heart of a mother. I also look up to my husband, Dr. Ps Abraham Halidu . The passion with which he serves God is amazing!

  • How would you like to be remembered?
    🌼 Oh you just asked me a touching question. If you ask my children, l say it all the time. I said I want them to write on my tomb,

Mrs Alice Halidu, a woman who loved Jesus.

That’s my summary



I want everything l do to be motivated by my love for God. If I could l would go and buy all that love and print it in my heart. For example, as young single girl if a man comes and says , “Sleep with me.” You say , “It’s not that l can’t but l won’t because l love God.” I can’t taste this and that because God’s love has already intoxicated me. I should be angry with you and keeping malice but I love God!

Jesus said to him, ‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbour as yourself.’ On these two commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets.”
‭‭Matthew‬ ‭22‬:‭37‬-‭40‬ ‭NKJV‬‬

Love your neighbours too. If pastors love their members they won’t cheat them. If members love their pastors they won’t put them in tight corners. The world would be a better place. Husbands loving their wives, pastors loving each other even people would want to be Christians. Loving people will stop people from saying false prophecies. Just loving God and loving your neighbour will make everything so much better.

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