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Why has this happened to us?

Welcome to a new week my Yielded people!

Have you ever found yourself in a season of such overwhelming occurrences that you began to question not God’s existence, but His presence in your life? You know, without a doubt, that God is real but you wonder, Is He truly with me? I’ve walked through those seasons. I know what it means to stagger under the weight of trials, even though Abraham is praised for not staggering at God’s promises through unbelief. And I’m reminded of a man in Scripture who once asked, “If the Lord is with us, why has all this happened to us?”

“The angel of the Lord appeared to him and said, “Mighty hero, the Lord is with you!” “Sir,” Gideon replied, “if the Lord is with us, why has all this happened to us? And where are all the miracles our ancestors told us about? Didn’t they say, ‘The Lord brought us up out of Egypt’? But now the Lord has abandoned us and handed us over to the Midianites.”

Gideon looked around at Israel, at his own life, at the state of his people. He measured what he saw against what he had heard about God, and questions began to rise within him. Is God really with us? Where were the miracles their ancestors spoke of? Were they only stories from the past? If God was truly with them, why hadn’t He done those mighty works for them too? Why was there so much loss? And with all these unanswered questions, Gideon came to a conclusion: The Lord is no longer with us.

I’ve shared with you the story of how my dad passed away while I was on my knees, praying on the altar. Ehhh I prayyyyeeeed! That moment shook me. It made me wrestle with the very meaning of the name Emmanuel— God with us. Because if He is truly Emmanuel, then why did this happen? Maybe you’ve asked similar questions. I pray, I fast, I seek Him so if God sees me, why am I still without a job? Dear Gideon, dear weary heart God is with you! He has not abandoned you.

Gideon speaks of abandonment. And don’t we feel like that too sometimes? “God has abandoned me.” Or, “God is blessing others, not me. Maybe He has favorites.” I once read a comment from a guy on Instagram who said, “I don’t pray anymore because I feel like God has His favorites.” But you know that’s a lie, right? Scripture tells us that God shows no favoritism (Romans 2:11).

What really happened in that situation is that he grew weary. He took his eyes off God and fixed them on his circumstances. And in doing so, he felt abandoned. Gideon had the same struggle: If the Lord delivered Israel from Pharaoh, then why are we still oppressed by the Midianites?

Then the Lord turned to him and said, “Go with the strength you have, and rescue Israel from the Midianites. I am sending you!”
‭‭Judges‬ ‭6‬:‭12‬-‭14‬ ‭NLT‬‬

It’s amazing ! Gideon had strength he never even knew about. He was waiting for God to do a miracle, but God’s response was, The miracle is in you. The key to unlocking breakthrough was already within him. Deliverance was coming, but it was coming through him! We often think we have no strength, but it’s there. Maybe only 30%, maybe 50%, but it’s there. And here’s the truth, Gideon not only is God with you, but He has also equipped you with strength!

Stop entertaining the thought that the Lord has abandoned you. I’ve heard people who are grieving say, God does not exist. Grief is heavy, and losing a loved one is incredibly painful. But no matter how deep the pain, we must never allow any situation to convince us that God is not with us.

While I was praying at the Singles Meet Wives event, God gave me a word. He said, EMMANUEL.

And I want to say this to you, the one asking, “If God is truly Sovereign , then why has all this happened?”

EMMANUEL.

God is with you. Even in the questions, even in the pain, even in the waiting, He is with you.

Blessed Assurance, Emmanuel.

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Reflection Friday

How are you?

This morning, I spoke with a lady who runs an orphanage, and as we talked, she began sharing about the people she works with and how she wished they could receive counseling. She didn’t even mention herself. I could hear and feel her heart through the phone, and I thought wow, she must be living such a fulfilling life. The world often makes it seem like selfishness leads to fulfillment, but that’s far from the truth. It was truly inspiring to hear about someone who gives so much of themselves for others. I’ve come to realise that the joy we long for is often found in serving God and His people.

Who did you serve this week , God ? People? If your focus was only on yourself, then you acted selfishly. Every day is an opportunity to be a light in someone’s life. You are the light of the world, yet why is that light only serving you?

With that in mind, take a moment to reflect: What can you do right now to make the world a better place? Let’s start with where you are , what can you do today?

And if your first thought is, “But no one will pay me for it,” consider this: How much did you pay for the heartbeats you’ve been given today? For yesterday? For the years you’ve lived? Even those in the hospital pay the doctors, not God. Let that sink in. Reflect on it.

With that in mind, I invite you to partner with me in supporting this orphanage by helping to purchase the following essential items. You can simply pick up one or two things at the grocery store or order online and have them couriered to me.

Additionally, I will be visiting the orphanage fortnightly to provide free counseling services. As you can imagine, this will require a great deal of preparation and resources. If you’d like to support this mission financially, please reach out to me. The funds will go toward creating charts, workbooks, and other materials to support their emotional and spiritual well-being. May God bless you as you serve!

Please refer to the list above.
For financial partnership with me please contact me on 📧 yieldedcwcenter@gmail.com | 📞 +27845877944.

🩷🌸Have a great weekend! I love you! 🌸🩷

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Special Edition Thursday with Duza

Jerry Duza Dauda

Jerry and I got into a deep (and slightly dramatic) conversation about food, and I came to a life-changing realisation that I can never, under any circumstances, eat okra with any meat, even if you fry it with olive oil and say it’s anointed. Nope, not happening. Meanwhile, Jerry was hyping his favourite Nigerian dish: pounded yam (which, to me, looks like pap), paired with okra soup and egusi. Have any of you ever tried this combo?

Oh, and in true Nigerian fashion, he boldly declared that Nigerian jollof is superior to Ghanaian jollof, so if you’re Ghanaian, please slide into his DMs and settle this once and for all, whoever wins must make the jollof for the entire Yielded Community all over the world. LOL! Now, let’s get into today’s Special Edition Thursday Interview with none other than Jerry, aka Duza! Let’s go!


  • Where are you from?
    ▪️I’m from Northern Nigeria, from a minority tribe called the Gbagyi.

  • What’s the story behind the name J.Clone?
    ▪️ Well, I was, I was looking to project my music as a sold out Gospel Artist and so, that was where the name J.Clone came from. It was supposed to be J.Clone for Jesus clone and with the idea that we are meant to replicate Jesus wherever we go. So J.Clone came from that, and then with time, I felt restricted because I was going about doing my normal ministrations here and there as a hip hop artist, but I had a kind of push back from church, because they didn’t really get my vision when It came to my sound and my style. I was bringing a new sound to the hip hop community, and they felt that this doesn’t belong to the church. But then I decided, after a while, to really do what I feel God has called me to do, and part of that is to be able to reach a wider audience, cutting across the church, and then not allowing myself to be fit into a box. So I adopted my, my tribal name Duza. I just decided to use that as my artist name, and l have been building that. I mean, I don’t know how to put it, but yes, I’m a church boy. So that’s the history about the name. Btw, Duza means God is great!

  • If your life were a movie, what would the title be?
    ▪️Misfit. I see myself as someone who doesn’t really fit in. My story has always been that of people just trying to figure out who this person is. I’m not able to fit into their idea of whom a rapper should be. See you always have a picture when you talk about rappers or hip hop artists right? What comes to people’s minds is someone who smokes, drinks, who has tattoos, someone who maybe has dreads, you understand. So I’m not a picture of the “classic” Hip Hop guy. What makes me stand out the gift that God has given me and that is what has separated me from the rest. I’m so conscious of the call on my life, I don’t fit into the definitions people have about the hip hop artists.

  • What’s something people assume about you that is not true?
    ▪️ People think l am too strong.. Because I do a lot of work for people. I am the backstage person, I love to work behind the scenes. So people think I’m strong. I carry their burdens. They think I’m able to take a lot. But there’s actually a part of me that is a little emotional . Maybe I don’t do too well to project that, but I’m not always confident. I’m not always as strong as they see me. So I just feel like that’s the misconception . I think that’s just one thing I want to put out there. I’m not all strong always. It is really just the grace of God that helps me.

  • If you were to describe yourself using 3 emojis, what would they be?
    ▪️ 😎❤️😇
  • How would you describe your style in 3 words?
    ▪️ I would say Creative , Real Life and Relevant.


  • Where do you draw your inspiration from?
    ▪️ I draw inspiration from my experiences. Basically, I love to tell stories. I use these experiences to teach through my music. My goal is to help someone, to also inspire them through my story to be better or to do better with their lives. I really want to impact people and to be able to leave a legacy more than just create creating vibes. I’m not vibes on vibes person.


  • Have you ever created something that you thought was fire but it flopped?
    ▪️LOL! Of course! Im very sure if you ask any artist this question they will tell you the same. We have, that we felt like, ah this will be great. There was a song like I did, I am back. I feel like it was a great record but it didn’t do so well. There’s so many I’ve done, some I didn’t even release them. I recorded an EP some years ago that crashed. The laptop crashed with the entire project so I could not put it out. And that really affected me so much, because I loved the project. Let me hint you, it was from a heartbreak I had just gone through, so I think God was restraining me lol.


  • If you could collaborate with any artist who would it be?
    ▪️I’ve always wanted to work with Mali Music. Well, l also love Lauryn Hill.

  • Social media can be brutal, how do you handle criticism and negative comments?
    ▪️Very nice question. I think this is something we all deal with, especially in this time, this age. Sometimes I take time out from social media. Sometimes I just want to go off social media. I used to be very conscious of what people say but I’ve really just understood that social media is a game of psychology. If you understand the psychology of social media you will not take everything you see there, you will be able to filter it. I know that this is what is beneficial, I’m using that to filter what I take in. And l also think people should learn how to block people and negative energy. I block a lot. I just block people who I know are not adding value to my life.

  • What’s the weirdest or funniest DM you ever received?
    ▪️ Well, not weird but many years ago, I got to work for a US based rapper. They reached out to me to do a chorus for a song. That was one day I knew, I am on the right path doing what God has called me to do. So it wasn’t weird in a bad way. I just felt like, really grateful to God for the opportunity. After that we did two or three more collaborations.

  • What’s your favourite social media app?
    ▪️Twitter!

  • If Twitter shut down today what social media app would be your favourite?
    ▪️ Uhmm Instagram.
  • What’s your favourite scripture?


“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.”

Proverbs 3:5-6


  • What’s one lesson God has taught you through your journey?
    ▪️ Understanding the love of God and how to love the nearest person to me. I feel like the world can do more with much more love than there is right now. If we can express God’s love, the world would be a better place. It’s easy to show love to people we are trying to prove a point to out there but at home we don’t show any of that. The testament of your love really comes from those closest to you who know you.


  • What’s your favourite book of the Bible?
    ▪️Paul’s letter to the Romans. There’s a lot to learn about Christianity in that book.

  • If you were stranded on an island and you had to have 3 things to survive what would they be?
    ▪️ Only 3 things? I would have to take my AirPods , a blanket and Edaniels. Ohh my phone too! Add 4 for bonus. We will eat fish from somewhere lol.

  • What’s one song that’s always on repeat on your playlist?
    ▪️ Yahweh by Edaniels! And bonus, Lonely Road by Jelly Roll.

  • Tea is coffee?
    ▪️Tea

  • Mornings or nights?
    ▪️Mornings. Especially Saturday Mornings!

  • The city or village?
    ▪️City!

  • Movies or Music?
    ▪️Music

  • What’s next for you?
    ▪️For now I’m doing courses to understand the professional side of things. In music I want to put out more singles this year because there’s a lot of songs I’m working on at the moment. I also plan to do live videos from the songs I’ve released. I see myself developing and diving into music publishing in the future.

  • What advice would you give to young artists who are trying to build their careers?
    ▪️I do a lot of research so I’m gonna advise on the technical side. They should learn the business part of music and how it’s evolving. They should understand how royalties are paid, how music is published and how you can sync license your songs. Understanding the business side of music will help many artists.

  • If you could give your younger self advice what would it be?
    ▪️To not be swayed by what others are doing. Understanding the call of God on your life will remove the pressures we go through when we’re too focused on other people. In Nigeria songs are released every week and if you’re not true to yourself you’ll be so confused and pressurised. We call it “I wan blow” that mindset of wanting to be a star overnight. With that mindset you’ll be frustrated and you’ll probably die trying. Just stay true to your own unique path.

  • Any last words or advice you wanna share with us?
    ▪️It’ll be from my favourite scripture. You may be at the edge of life and dealing with stuff , trust God regardless of whatever is happening. He is able to do! He will direct your paths.


Check out Duza’s Music by clicking on the links below

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Worship Wednesday

It’s Worship Wednesday! Are you excited?

I love Worship Wednesdays because all I have to do is share my playlist with you , no long writing, just pure worship. This day is special because it’s about connecting with God personally, according to our hunger and desire for Him.

Many people struggle to worship outside of “group worship” whether in church or with friends. But when we’re alone, cultivating a life of worship can be challenging. This struggle affects our relationship with God because worship is one of the ways we truly come to know Him. Do you find yourself bored during worship but excited when it’s time to pray? If so, there’s something off in your walk with God. Worship isn’t just a moment; it’s a lifestyle.

How do you start?

You start by asking the Holy Spirit to teach you how to worship. Worship isn’t just about singing, it’s about surrender, intimacy, and a heart that seeks God. I am a music minister, and although I’ve been singing for many years, every time I’m about to minister, I always pray, “Holy Spirit, teach me how to sing.” I do this every single time because no matter how much experience I have, I recognize that true worship comes from Him.

What we cannot do, or what we lack the capacity to do at its very best, we must always ask for help. Here are some worship songs to help you draw closer to God today. See you tomorrow for our Special Edition Thursday!

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A foolish companion

When I was growing up, I believed that God was responsible for everything that happened both good and bad. If I had hiccups or sneezed a lot, I thought it was because I had lied or done something wrong, and God was punishing me. Even when I fell or bruised myself, I assumed it was His way of reminding me of unconfessed sins. I was just a child, shame! Now that I’m older, I realise that many of the challenges we face aren’t necessarily tied to God’s will but are often the result of our own choices, preferences, and decisions.

As we learned yesterday, the choice is ours to make God has given us free will. The people in your life, your spouse, even the way you dress; these are all choices you’ve made. I’ve made my fair share of bad choices, and I had to face the consequences. That’s the thing about decisions, every choice comes with a consequence. The Bible tells us about a man named Nabal, whose very name means “fool.” But guess what? He was married to a beautiful wise woman called Abigail. When Nabal rudely turned away David’s messengers, he angered David and put his entire household in danger. David was prepared to wipe them all out. But then, the Bible tells us that Abigail quickly got on her donkey and hurried to meet David, seeking to make peace.

“She fell at his feet and said, “I accept all blame in this matter, my Lord. Please listen to what I have to say. I know Nabal is a wicked and ill-tempered man; please don’t pay any attention to him. He is a fool, just as his name suggests. But I never even saw the young men you sent.”
‭‭1 Samuel‬ ‭25‬:‭24‬-‭25‬ ‭NLT‬‬

A wise and sensible woman married a fool; just let that sink in. When I first read this, I thought, “Wow! So even wise people make mistakes?” And then I remembered Solomon… case closed! Even the wisdom of men has its flaws.

You might be thinking, “How could Abigail marry a man like that?” But be honest how many times have you found yourself in relationships, business partnerships, or friendships with fools? Apostle Joshua Selman puts it best: “If you count five fools around you, you did not count well!” Now, imagine if Abigail hadn’t stepped in she would have perished, all because of her connection to a fool. Moral of the story? You’re never safe around fools!!

Fools are a special breed, they make impulsive decisions, speak recklessly, and act without considering the consequences or who will be affected. They just do things anyhow. But here’s the funny part: fools still get opportunities! They get the jobs, the marriages, some even become parents! The problem isn’t getting things; it’s keeping them. Their foolishness eventually ruins what they once had.

Now, let’s talk about Abigail. This beautiful, sensible woman looked at Nabal and said, “I do!” A whole Abigail married a whole fool. And not just any fool; one so certified that even his wife called him that!I can’t help but wonder, how many fires did Abigail have to put out because of her husband? How many apologies did she have to make on his behalf? How many times did she rush to clean up the mess he created? Because when you’re surrounded by fools, guess who gets stuck doing damage control? You! And let me tell you, that life is exhausting!

Everyone makes foolish decisions now and then, it happens. But there’s a big difference between making a foolish decision and being a fool. Don’t be that friend. You know, the one no one asks for advice because they already know whatever comes out of your mouth will make zero sense. Refuse to be the Nabal of your circle! Ask God for wisdom, so you don’t become anyone’s cautionary tale. The book of Proverbs has so much to say about fools that sometimes, when you’re reading it, you start wondering, “Wait… is Solomon talking about me?”

But here’s a question, when you look at your life, how many of the people around you are wise? How many give you sound advice? How many can actually be trusted? And most importantly, how many truly believe in God? Because according to the Bible, the first qualification for being a fool is not believing that God exists. So, before worrying about fools around you, make sure you’re not the one Solomon’s been warning us about!

“A wicked fool says to himself, “There is no God.” Fools are evil. They do terrible things. None of them does anything good.”
‭‭Psalms‬ ‭14‬:‭1‬ ‭ICB‬‬

Wisdom is profitable. 🌸