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Worship Wednesday

PSALM 92

“It’s so enjoyable to come before you with uncontainable praises spilling from our hearts!
How we love to sing our praises over and over to you, to the matchless God, high and exalted over all! At each and every sunrise we will be thanking you for your kindness and your love. As the sun sets and all through the night, we will keep proclaiming, “You are so faithful!

Melodies of praise will fill the air as every musical instrument, joined with every heart, overflows with worship. No wonder I’m so glad; I can’t keep it in! Lord, I’m shouting with glee over all you’ve done, for all you’ve done for me: what mighty miracles and your power at work—just to name a few! Depths of purpose and layers of meaning saturate everything you do. Such amazing mysteries are found within every miracle that nearly everyone seems to miss. Those with no discernment can never really discover the deep and glorious secrets hidden in your ways. It’s true the wicked flourish, but only for a moment; they foolishly forget their destiny with death, that they will all one day be destroyed forevermore. But you, O Lord, are exalted forever in the highest place of endless glory, while your opponents, the workers of wickedness, will all perish, forever separated from you.

Your anointing has made me strong and mighty. You’ve empowered my life for triumph by pouring fresh oil over me. You’ve said that those lying in wait to pounce on me would be defeated, and now it’s happened right in front of my eyes, and I’ve heard their cries of surrender! Yes! Look how you’ve made all your devoted lovers to flourish like palm trees, each one growing in victory, standing with strength! You’ve transplanted them into your heavenly courtyard, where they are thriving before you, for in your presence they will still overflow and be anointed. Even in their old age they will stay fresh, bearing luscious fruit and abiding faithfully. Listen to them! With pleasure they still proclaim: “

You’re so good! You’re my beautiful strength! You’ve never made a mistake with me.”

Take some time to glorify Him!

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The Overcoming Believer

It’s already paid for!

Imagine walking into a store to buy a beautiful dress (ugh, I miss shopping). You find the dress, pay for it, and start walking out, feeling all excited like me when I shop, I’m just ontop of the world. But then, you realise you lost the receipt. The security guy stops you and says, “Let’s go back to the counter to confirm you actually paid.”

You get to the counter, and the cashier looks at you and says, “If you don’t have the receipt, it means you didn’t pay. You’ll have to pay again.” What would be your response? “No way I’ve already paid for it! I’m not paying for it twice.”

It turns into a full-blown scene. The cashier stands her ground, insisting you never paid. The security guard doesn’t believe a word you say. Next thing you know, handcuffs. They drag you back inside, everyone’s staring. You’re being questioned like a criminal. To make things worse, they hand you a broom and a mop, forcing you to clean the store as punishment for “stealing.” Shame and confusion wrap around you like a heavy coat. You keep pleading, “I paid! I paid!” At this point you’re even crying bitterly.

But it’s no use. The cashier either has full-blown amnesia or she’s the devil in human form. She even argues the fact that you used your dad’s card to pay.

Then, in the middle of all that madness, a kind woman approaches you. She frowns and says, “Why are you mopping the floor? You don’t even work here.” You look at her, broken and exhausted, and tell her everything. She pauses, then says, “Wait, have they even scanned the barcode or checked the system?” She grabs the item, gets someone to scan it, and BAAAM! there it is. Proof. Confirmation. The system shows you paid in full.

Suddenly the room shifts. The truth stands taller than all the lies. You were right the whole time. You whisper under your breath, “I told you. It was already paid for.

My Yielded people , That’s exactly what’s happening to many of us. Jesus already paid in full, He settled it all at the cross. Yet, here we are, being told to pay again. Told we’re not going anywhere . Told we’re not free. And because we don’t know how to “check the system,” we’re out here mopping floors in handcuffs, slaves under the enemy’s lies.

The devil, like that cashier, acts like he doesn’t know the truth. He pretends there’s no record. Why? Because he profits from your ignorance. He benefits when you don’t know your rights in Christ. He keeps you working, serving, striving, trying to earn what’s already yours. But here’s the truth: Jesus paid for the dress. It’s yours.

Just because the enemy won’t acknowledge the payment doesn’t mean it wasn’t made. Heaven’s system has a record. The barcode still scans. The blood still speaks. The cross still stands. Believers who don’t know how to access that truth will keep living like prisoners instead of the free sons and daughters they are. You’re not a cleaner in the enemy’s shop, you’re a co-heir in the kingdom of God. It’s already paid for. Walk out of that store. The receipt is written in His blood. You are saved and free to leave the store with whatever you want!

You can’t just say “It’s already paid for” without proof. In the natural, if you lose the receipt, you risk being treated like a thief even if you paid. That’s why stores have systems, scanners, barcodes, and cameras. Proof exists. But unless you know where to look, you’ll suffer unjustly. Now take that into the spiritual. Where is our proof? In the Word of God. That’s our system. That’s where we scan, check, confirm, and present our case.

In the story I shared earlier, if there hadn’t been a system to scan the barcode, you could’ve been sent to jail, punished for something you never did. And guess what? The store owners know they have cameras. They know you paid. But unless someone stands up and demands the truth, they won’t tell you. They’ll let you mop. That’s exactly what the devil is doing today.

He knows what happened at Calvary. He knows the blood was shed. He knows the curse was broken. He was there. But he’s banking on one thing: your ignorance. Because if you don’t know your rights, your receipt, or your spiritual legal standing, you’ll pay again. And right now, many believers are paying again. Paying with their peace. Paying with their health. Paying with their joy, finances, and marriages. Paying even with their entire lives. Labouring under Pharaoh because they don’t know they’ve already been set free. But I refuse to pay again.

If the Son sets you free, you are free indeed” (John 8:36).

So why am I not allowed to leave the store with my bag of goodies? Because the realm of the spirit is legalistic. It doesn’t respond to emotions and tears, it responds to evidence. They want receipts. So today, I present mine: The blood of Jesus Christ. And according to Revelation 12:11:

“And they overcame him by the blood of the Lamb, and by the word of their testimony…”

That’s how we win. The blood + the Word = the receipt. So I ask again: How is an overcomer still mopping floors?

Selah.

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The Yielded Believer

Entitlement mentality

Happy new week everyone! I pray that the Lord will give you a mindblowing testimony this week!

There’s something that destroys relationships, it is a silent killer and often not addressed as much as many other things. It’s called entitlement. What is entitlement?

The entitlement mentality is a belief or attitude that one believes he/she deserves special treatment, privileges, or rewards often without corresponding effort, responsibility, or merit. People with an entitlement mentality might think others owe them things like respect, success, or support, just because of who they are or what they’ve been through. (Selah)

Interestingly, at one point or another, we’ve all entertained an entitlement mentality. Whether we admit it or not, there was a time we felt we deserved something and were completely thrown off when we didn’t get it. Some people carry expectations into spaces where they’ve made no investment. They want reward without the work, blessings without obedience, essentially, they want freebies. And truth be told, the most entitled often have done the least to earn what they’re demanding. Then there’s the “grace entitlement” mindset among Christians. We act like we’re owed grace, living carelessly and then turning to God with bold demands: “You said You’re gracious, so give me grace!” Eh! That’s not how grace works.

Let’s talk about friendships. There are friends who feel so entitled to you, they start believing that normal rules and boundaries don’t apply to them. Ma’am, you’re wrong. Sir, you’re very wrong. Let’s put it this way: if I walk into Pick n Pay and my friend owns the store, does that automatically mean I get bread for free? If they offer, sure. But do I just load up a trolley and walk out saying, “It’s fine, I know the owner”? Absolutely not. That’s not friendship, that’s entitlement. Oh, shall I shake the table a little bit more?

Your pastor may have been called by God to shepherd and serve you, but that doesn’t mean he’s obligated to answer your call every time you ring. Sometimes the man of God is praying, resting, or simply unavailable, and yet you get so offended when he doesn’t respond. But let’s be honest when your own family calls you at 3 a.m., you don’t always pick up either! This entitlement mindset has silently ruined so many beautiful relationships and opportunities. It’s a silent killer. And the tricky part? Some people never say it out loud, but deep down, they believe they deserve the front seat even if everyone else is standing.

“People must.” “Indoda (a man) must.” “A woman must.” These phrases reveal a dangerous mindset, one where we’ve crafted our own expectations and demand that others live up to them, no matter what. It’s an illusion of control rooted in entitlement. Left unchecked, this attitude breeds resentment, bitterness, and even hatred. Oh yes! It might wear the mask of “I know my worth,” but what’s really being said is, “You owe me something I’m not sure what, but you owe me.” That’s not confidence; that’s selfishness.

Philippians 2:3 says, “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.”

No one is obligated to do what you should be doing for yourself not even your parents. Placing demands on people that come from your own unmet responsibilities can push them away, not bring them closer. Don’t let entitlement cost you the very relationships God gave you to steward with love and grace. I know this post may offend some people but it’s fine, healing is there in Christ.

Don’t create your own expectations and expect people to just jump in and flow with you. Life doesn’t work that way. And if you’ve been dealing with people like that, I want you to know it’s not that you’re not doing your best. The problem is, your best isn’t their best, and until you give them what they think they deserve, they’ll keep rejecting you. Some people want to be pleased, but they have zero regard for what it actually costs to please them.

Don’t wear yourself out trying to meet impossible standards. The truth is, you can’t serve everyone the way they want to be served all the time. It’s not sustainable and it’s not your job. Those who know the kitchen shouldn’t be throwing tantrums about being hungry. I’ll say this again: entitlement mentality will rob you of good, good people. The kind-hearted, the generous, the patient ones; entitlement pushes them away. Why? Because nobody “SHOULD” do anything for you unless you’re paying them, lol. People MAY help you, love you, support you and that shift in language will save you a lot of heartache in life. Learn to see kindness as a gift, not a right. Gratitude opens doors, but entitlement? It shuts and even puts a lock on them.

Have a great day! ❤️

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Reflection Friday

I’ve often struggled to celebrate my own achievements. No matter how hard I work or how significant the accomplishment, I tend to brush it off like it’s nothing. I could pass a difficult exam and barely acknowledge it, but the moment something goes wrong, I’m the first to criticise myself.Now, don’t get me wrong I’m deeply grateful to God for everything. My issue isn’t a lack of gratitude; it’s a lack of self-appreciation. l will tell you why it’s important to celebrate yourself . Keep reading!

Low self-esteem often stems from two sources: what others have told you and what you’ve told yourself. It’s shaped by external standards and internal expectations what people define as success and what we believe is enough.

David declared, “I praise You because I am fearfully and wonderfully made” (Psalm 139:14). His praise was in place, but the real challenge for many of us isn’t praising God it’s believing what He says about us. If I struggle to see myself as fearfully and wonderfully made, then even in my gratitude, I may still undermine my worth.

When you look at your accomplishments and dismiss them as insignificant, you’re not just being “humble” , you’re downplaying God’s hand in your life. Every victory, every completed task, is evidence of His grace and strength in you. So, take a moment. What did you accomplish this week? What task did you complete? Say this with me: “I praise You, Lord, because I managed to accomplish this! I am a star!”

If we truly saw ourselves the way God sees us, depression wouldn’t stand a chance. It wouldn’t even get the chance to knock on your door. So why do you constantly diminish yourself? Why do you believe there’s nothing beautiful about you? Who told you that you were naked? I want you to pause and reflect on this past week. What have you accomplished? What have you pushed through? Now, I want you to praise God for it and I want you to celebrate yourself.

It’s not wrong to treat yourself. My niece taught me this: loving and spoiling yourself is okay. Don’t feel guilty for enjoying a caramel ice cream after a long day (caramel is my favourite, by the way!). Don’t feel bad about buying yourself those shoes just maybe not every week, because, well, wisdom.

And for the love of God, stop rejecting compliments! If someone tells you, “You’re beautiful!” don’t respond with, “Ah really? Haha, that’s not true. A monkey like me?” If I catch you saying that…!

Remember, your confidence is only as strong as your perception of yourself. And no, I’m not talking about pride. Some people think rejecting compliments makes them humble , not so, my lord! (lol). You’ve just gotten used to rejecting good things, and somehow, you believe that’s the right thing to do. But it’s not.

But I didn’t do anything this week!”

Yes, you did. You lived. You pushed through. You didn’t give up. There’s always something worth acknowledging. Anyway, I’m currently thinking about caramel ice cream, so I have nothing else to write. See you on Monday.

🩷🌸And hey, you’re beautiful! You’re handsome! 🌸🩷

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Special Edition Thursdays

Special Edition Thursday with Iyo Prosper

Iyo Prosper

So, we had the absolute privilege of interviewing Iyo, one of the greatest skit makers on the planet! And I’m not exaggerating his creativity is unmatched. But here’s the best part: beyond the talent, he’s genuinely one of the kindest, most welcoming people ever. No drama, no stress just pure humility and warmth.! From the moment I reached out, it was effortless. No hoops to jump through. No complicated stuff .. You know people who don’t make life difficult? Exactly!

If you’re not following him yet… honestly, what are you doing? You’re about to experience some of the most incredible, biblical skits ever.

Wait , don’t rush now. He got nominated for the AMVCA’s so GO VOTE FIRST! Yes, now! Then come back. We’ll wait .. Click the link below ..

Okay , you’re back? GREAT! Let’s get into the interview!

  • What’s the most ridiculous thing you’ve ever believed as a child?
    💚 I used to believe that if I swallowed a seed, a tree would grow inside my stomach. It made eating fruits a very stressful experience!

  • If you had to eat only one meal for the rest of your life, what would it be?
    💚 Probably jollof rice with grilled meat and plantain. Classic, delicious, and never gets old.

  • If you could instantly master any skill, what would it be?
    💚 Cyber security & Video editing at a cinematic level. It would make my content even more engaging.

  • Who is Iyo beyond the skits?
    💚 Iyo is just a young man trying to get by really,  I’m also an introvert who somehow thrives in social spaces.

  • What inspired you to start creating skits?
    💚 I’ve always loved storytelling, and I noticed that people connect more with lessons when they’re presented in an engaging, relatable way. Using comedy to retell Bible stories from a modern perspective felt like the perfect way to do that.

  • How did you come up with your unique style of comedy?
    💚 My approach blends Nigerian culture with biblical narratives, making them feel fresh and relatable. The diary-style confessions and character interviews add a unique touch, allowing audiences to hear the characters’ perspectives in a modern context.

  • Walk us through your creative process—how do you develop ideas for your skits?
    💚 I start by reading a Bible story or observing something in everyday life that sparks an idea. I then think of how a Nigerian would react in that situation. Once the concept is set, I draft the dialogue, plan the shots, and get into character.

  • Do you ever experience creative blocks? How do you overcome them?
    💚 Yes, definitely! When that happens, I take a break, watch other creative content for inspiration, or revisit Bible stories with fresh eyes. Sometimes, talking with friends or taking a walk helps new ideas flow.

  • Which of your skits is your personal favourite, and why?
    💚 Probably the Nativity story/musical I did last Christmas..I’ve always wanted to infuse my musical side in my skit, and the fact that I got to do that with the  nativity story makes it my favourite !!!

  • What has been the biggest challenge on your content creation journey?
    💚 Trying to balance my personal life with my social media life. I have social anxiety, and the fact that I have to talk to a lot of random people on the road scares me sometimes.

  • How do you handle negative comments or criticism on your social media platforms?
    💚 I filter through them. If it’s constructive, I take it as feedback. If it’s just hate, I ignore it. Not everyone will get the vision, and that’s okay.

  • When did you get saved?
    💚 I’ve always known God, but my faith became truly personal and intentional in my teenage years.

  • We see that you can siiiiing, is it something you would pursue as a career?
    💚 I enjoy singing, but for now, it’s more of a personal and worship-driven expression than a career pursuit.

  • What’s one piece of advice you’d like to give to someone looking to deepen their faith?
    💚 Take it one day at a time. Spend time in the Word, stay in a community that uplifts you, and be intentional about your relationship with God.

  • What’s the funniest behind-the-scenes moment you’ve had while filming?
    💚

There was a time I set up everything to shoot, only to realise later that I forgot to press record. Happens EVERYTIME !

( I’d scream for 27 hours!)

  • If you could collaborate with any Christian content creator, who would it be?
    💚 Probably someone like Arielfitz —her humor and storytelling style are top-notch.


  • If your life were a movie, what would the title be?
  • What’s one thing people would be surprised to know about you?
    💚 I’m actually very quiet in person—until you get to know me!

  • Sunrise or sunsets?
    💚 Sunsets. They feel peaceful and reflective.

  • Dancing or singing?
    💚 Singing. My dancing is strictly for comic relief.

  • Would we find you at the beach or climbing mountains?
    💚The Beach. I enjoy the calmness of the waves.

  • How long does it take you to shoot one skit?
    💚 Shooting can take 30 minutes to an hour, depending on the complexity. Editing takes much longer—sometimes a few hours or even a day!

  • What advice would you give to someone who wants to start making skits but feels unsure?
    💚 Just start. You’ll improve as you go. Don’t overthink it—consistency is key.

  • Would you ever consider creating movies or acting in movies?
    💚 Yes, I’d love to! It would be a great way to expand storytelling beyond short skits.

  • What platforms is your content on?
    💚 Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube and X

  • Create a short poem titled ‘The Day It Finally Stopped Raining.’

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